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| Folks have recommended Collarme, so let's see how it goes. I'm also on Alt and , if you prefer the same information sliced slightly differently.
I'm just getting back online after several years away. I'm on the rebound, so at this point (the next few months) I'm not seeking anything long term, but finding a regular (or even an irregular) play partner would be delightful. I have some skin hunger going on. I'm not exclusively looking for long term at this point - if it happens, great, if not, life is too short to live like a monk for decades hoping your ideal will show up. We only get so many trips around the sun on this little blue ball, people.
I'm most interested in bottoming with a relatively experienced top, but topping is always fun, and I have a soft spot for newbie subs and bottoms, not to mention tying up little girls of all ages, so if you think you might like my style, by all means ask me out for coffee...politely. Friends are always welcome, because I'm genuinely interested in what makes people tick and learning new things about how people play. What's your story?
About me: If you like brains, a sense of humour, and creativity, by all means say hello. I'm intellectually curious, with a lot of different interests and eclectic tastes, and I like those qualities in a partner. Physically, I'm a big guy, so if that's an issue, no offense taken.
As a bottom, I'm very interested in pushing my limits and trying new things, but I am particularly fond of restraint, sensory deprivation, being physically overpowered, and the mental aspects of being helpless and controlled.
Mentally I'm not an empty vessel and believe that a bottom needs to bring things to the table. I'm service oriented but not domestic, if that makes sense. I want to learn and I don't expect anyone or anything to be instantly perfect. What fun would that be?
As a top, I'm also pretty service-oriented, but with a preference for bondage, sensory deprivation and sensation play over heavy pain. If you're a hardcore masochist, intense impact player, or painslut, I'm not likely to be to your taste unless you feel like helping me become a better sadist.
(Which is a worthy thing to do, I'm sure you'd agree)
As for the mental aspect, if you have some cartoon vision of a Darke Master who will do a Dracula number on your soul, sorry, not here. If you want someone who's going to make an effort to get to know you as a human being and figure out how to push the buttons you need pushed, now we're talking.
My Ideal Person:
I adore funny, strong women with a big geek streak. Physical size, shape, and colour doesn't matter (and indeed is usually a plus) but I like women with some mass to them. I don't want to feel like I could break you. If you are a thin, waify wisp of a thing-well, it never hurts to ask, but be forewarned.
Long Term (only), two things to keep in mind;
1) I haven't given up on marriage and kids quite yet.
2) I'm also starting to note that religion can be an issue...If you're really observant, I'm not likely to convert to anything. My beliefs or lack thereof are my own. I respect others' beliefs, and conversation can be had around the subject, but if you are devout, you deserve someone who shares that, and that is not likely to be me.
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