An average looking guy with a strong sense of right and wrong and oldfashioned ways of dealing with that. No nonsense, talk is cheap, but actions count.
Normally easygoing with people, but demanding and strict within the Lifestyle.
Also a merciless teaser and provoker at times, and loves to make people blush...*weg*...preferably on all cheeks. Only looking for serious people, so please people, if you want to bother someone with fake info and BS, please do so with somebody else.

--------------------UPDATE nr 2-------------------- OK, let's make things even more clear: I'm ONLY looking for serious people. See the first update! And I ONLY am interested in LOCAL PEOPLE! Meaning living in the Netherlands, or at the utmost in one of the countries bordering on the Netherlands. Any further and there is no serious chance of getting together, so let's not waste time. In those cases you're welcome for a chat or email, but that's it. No long distance for me since it doesn't work. I know, because I tried.


--------------------UPDATE----------- ---------

OK an update here about what I am and am not looking for, since some people don't seem to understand. This should make things clear though, kinda like the 10 commandments: and I think I phrased them in such a way everyone should be getting the idea.

1 - If you're a male, looking for anything else besides a friendly chat, move along, I'm hetero.

2 - If you're looking for a sugardaddy to pay your bills, move along, I'm not going to.

3 - If you think I'll pay you to watch a cam or have you obey orders, move along, I won't.

4 - If you're certain you're a godsent to any male or Dom, move along, you're thinking too much of yourself to serve.

5 - If you are looking to marry someone, move along, I'm a happy single, looking for a slave, not a wife.

6 - If you expect to become my equal, move along you obviously have no clue about being a slave.

7 - If you expect to become the only one I'll ever talk to or will interact with or will play with, move along, it's not going to happen.

8 - If you think you will be the one going to be in control, move along, and learn the meaning of the words "slave" and "Dom".

9 - If you are looking for just kinky sex, move along, BDSM is about much more than that.

10 - If you think it's just a game, move along. I am as funloving as the next person, but I'm only looking for someone who is serious about the lifestyle.

A bit more about myself:
I'm rather a busybody with a fulltime job and several other activities besides.
Besides that I still work out twice a week and take some time to go off for a jog before work (if not starting at work too early that is, I like being able to see where I go and the trees seem to be too stubborn to move out of my way, the damn things).

In my sparetime - and yes, I still do seem to have that - I also am an avid reader, I like anything from Sf and fantasy to the classics like Homer and Shakespeare and from horror to poetry.

Yet somehow I still seem to have time left for other things, so don't worry about that. A little bit of planning makes a lot of things possible, at least that is my experience.


***WARNING: ***
Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects or any purpose other then meeting me (either in online chat or a meeting RT):
Any and all use of (part of) the information on this profile for any purpose is prohibited unless given prior written consent by me for a specific use.
If you have used or do use any information, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and you will be subjected to legal ramifications.

(I recommend other members to post a similar notice to this one or you may copy and paste My ideal person: Besides my sub, looking for different things. The final goal is a longtime relationship with a slavegirl who knows down to the marrow of her bones that her place is beside me - on her knees at my feet, with no rights than those I grant her.

She should realise that she will be mine in all ways, body, mind and soul. That her goal is to serve me and please me, and find pleasure in that fact. That the only pleasure she will get is what I grant her or allow her to have. Not just a sexual submission, but a complete one. From the time she rises - by my command, to the time she goes to bed - also by my command.
That her service gladdens me, and that in return she will be kept safe and protected and loved and cherished. And that she will be punished if that is needed, but by one that loves her and looks out for her.

Please understand : no brainless doormat, but a submissive one/slavegirl who has a need to serve and to be kept in line, kept as a precious treasure, one who may have her own ideas and goals, but can and will put her service to me as her highest goal of all.
And very important: a girl who is not going to be jealous. There will be a place for her as my favorite one, but that does NOT mean she will be the only one I'll ever play with again.

Other interests:
Women in need of a good spanking. Could be a onetime action or regular sessions over a longer period.
Monitoring for student or projects is possible as I have done this before.
Training and/or guidance for newcomers to the lifestyle is of course also possible, either on a mentee basis or just as chatpals.


PLEASE NOTE:
I am ONLY looking for those who are seriously interested in learning more about BDSM, which is NOT the same as only some kinky sex.
As for those reacting from Nigeria, Kenya, Somalia etc: please do not bother, I have seen all the spams and fake profiles already.