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I would like to find a strong-minded Dominant person who has lots of patience, who is consistent, stable and always learning.
I am looking to explore all of the aspects Bdsm has, to enhance a relationship. This means I'd like to find out first if there is a connection before trying to play or scene together.
I can find plenty people to play or scene with....however, that is not what I am looking for. I am looking for a connection that may or may not lead into a LTR.
My interest lies in a person's mind and heart, not great sex... which is pretty easy to find anywhere for women anyway. Please don't waste either your or my time if thats what you are looking for.
Though I tend to be submissive in some sitiuations(not all), with a curiosity to switch, I can be demanding because I am independent and intelligent and definitely not a doormat.  Warning:Most Dominants are scared of me.
Thanks for reading all the way through!
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It's been a long time since I received an email with someone ordering me to do something.
Come on men, get a clue and act your age(yes, the 45+ yr olds too).
Reading someone's profile fully or a journal might help too.
For those of you that seem to be in fantasy land, I do not have fairy wings or ride on a unicorn, I don't "need" nor want a master, don't need training and slave is not in my vocabulary. |
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I love to meet people that aren't afraid of me!
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What is it that I can do for you? What desires I can fulfill for you?
I don't think so........it goes both ways, so I'd like to hear something other than what you desire.
Growing is shared between more than one person, don't ya think?
Regardless of the label submissive, dominant, or switch.........I'm looking for an intelligent man, looking to share in an exploration, both teacher and student, to enhance a loving and strong relationship. BDSM labels are not required.
The word "training" and "please apply" is not in my vocabulary, unless it's for employment, not D/s.
I also don't believe in being someone's submissive or dominant, but believe there is a submissive or dominant "nature" in a person.
I believe there is fantasy and and there is reality. What do you think?
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Just to let people know who have tried to contact me by chat, I don't ever chat on collarme because it usually boots me offline, so don't be offended when you get the decline! |
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Just updating with my bad attitude.
If you have MASTER in your name, don't bother to contact me....that's only wishful thinking on your part.
If you're name is JDlooking, don't bother to contact me, I won't spank you, no matter how much you beg!
It will be funny to see how many men who label themselves as DOMINANT, change their profile to SWITCH and try to contact me again. But I am smart and will be able figure out your lame game.
As of today, I'm only interested in Switches since they are the only men who don't think they are God....and the only one's I am able to have intelligent conversations with, AND BTW, I'm still very lovable and nice to those who are real!
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Well, I think I scared all the Dominant men off again. Doesn't surprise me, should I change my search to SWITCH? |
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Good evening,
Yes, it's Friday nite and I'm on collarme instead of out on a Friday nite. Come out, come out, wherever you are. Although I think I'm used to it by now, since I'm getting older. Nowadays I have to push myself to get out of the house on a weekend.
I haven't been on collarme for awhile, been so busy. The last time I wrote in journal, well I guess that guy faded away, it's so hard to keep up on coming to check messages on collarme and seems like no one can listen when I ask them to contact me through email. Didn't think it was that hard. Anyway I saw another please apply if you are seriuos and real. I guess that really get's to me.
Having a Halloween party with vanilla friends tomorrow nite, am so tempted to wear one of my fetish outfits.
Afraid one of the men in the bunch will start fantasizing about me tying him up, I really suspect he secretly would like to be in a Bdsm scene, because he is soooo, uptight and stuffy. Maybe he's on ths site and will read this.
Haa! I know about you!
Okay, I'm done entertaining myself for now, and need to go return a phone call.
Happy Halloween, and if you have fetishwear that you've been dying to wear, this weekend is the perfect excuse!
Nite! |
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Good evening,
Yes, it's Friday nite and I'm on collarme instead of out on a Friday nite. Come out, come out, wherever you are. Although I think I'm used to it by now, since I'm getting older. Nowadays I have to push myself to get out of the house on a weekend.
I haven't been on collarme for awhile, been so busy. The last time I wrote in journal, well I guess that guy faded away, it's so hard to keep up on coming to check messages on collarme and seems like no one can listen when I ask them to contact me through email. Didn't think it was that hard. Anyway I saw another please apply if you are seriuos and real. I guess that really get's to me.
Having a Halloween party with vanilla friends tomorrow nite, am so tempted to wear one of my fetish outfits.
Afraid one of the men in the bunch will start fantasizing about me tying him up, I really suspect he secretly would like to be in a Bdsm scene, because he is soooo, uptight and stuffy. Maybe he's on ths site and will read this.
Haa! I know about you!
Okay, I'm done entertaining myself for now, and need to go return a phone call.
Happy Halloween, and if you have fetishwear that you've been dying to wear, this weekend is the perfect excuse!
Nite! |
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I've been occasionally talking on and off to someone who seems very nice for a few months. Nice is all I can say for now, because I haven't really gotten to know him too well. In between, I've talked to those MANY that are still in fantasy land and want to save me or really think I will long for them to pet me or just need them desparately.
Just recently I've gotten a few emails from men that don't have to jump all over me with fantasy questions about the lifestyle and actually ask me non-lifestyle questions.
I guess my patience is finally paying off.
I just really don't want to bother talking of thoughts about the lifestyle, until I at leaast find out if our personalities will be compatible. |
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Just returned from a 2 week vacation and checking in to see any new messages and members.
I actually received a message that is from a man younger than me, who seems to be really nice and real. although I tend to like men a few years older, I think I might give him a reply and meet a new friend.
Got another one contact while I was away from an older man. His message was short and sweet, but nothing that said too much about him, so I checked out his profile.
He mentioned something about... "for those submissives who wished to apply". APPLY? AM I MISSING SOMETHING HERE? I don't believe in applying for a relationship, I could see if it is a session. But this guy was looking for a relationship!
He also said ...."when you are ready to submit to me", please contact him.
I believe that person should know him and trust him before being willing to submit.
DOESN'T THAT MAKE MORE SENSE?
This guy is beyond fantasy land and I did not reply.
I do try and reply to those that contact me, but when they are rude or stupid I don't like to waste my time. I used to think well, at least I'll reply and let them know they were being offensive to me, so at least they know what they are doing to turn people off. But I've decided if they say things that are just too outrageous and too offensive, why bother telling them. They are pretty much hopeless and whoever responds to them will probably be hopeless too, so it may be a good match! LOL
Thanks for listening to me vent, I guess this is not one of the things I looked forward to coming back to.
Sorry for those that contacted me while I was out of town. For those that weren't idiots, I'll be trying to get replies out within the week. Take Care.
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Thinking I found someone I think may be interesting.....lets see what happens and lets see if I scare him. |
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Thought I would start a journal today. Found I like this site pretty well. Seems the other sites have lots of people that are looking for a fun thing or a thrill. I'm looking for a relationship.
I wonder though how many people actually realize about how their introduction profiles come off to others?
I see alot of "I will accept this" "I require that","he/she will obey my needs and desires and in turn I will teach you(or tell you more of what to do)."
In any relationship, D/s or not, I believe in give and take. I too can expect certain things as these demanding DOMS do, but in turn will give as much as I expect. Yeh, Yeh, I know as a DOM, they should really know what they want and be in control, but they need to offer more than teaching a submissive a thing or two. As a submissive, I know I can teach any Dom a thing or two also! What more can you offer me...that is not material??
Well, I haven't actually read my intro since I joined the site, but I do hope it's not come off like so many others I've read. |
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| Age: 23 |
| Atlanta,
Georgia |
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