What do I seek from her? ...someone said it better than I could, from her POV...
If it pleases Him to have me kneel before Him I will kneel reverently. If it pleases Him to bind me I will gladly offer my arms to Him If it pleases Him to touch me I will allow myself to be touched If it pleases Him to teach me I will learn all I can If it pleases Him to discipline me I will accept it without a sound If it pleases Him to allow me to serve Him I will serve Him with loyalty and devotion...
This is how I ideally want her to think - in the first instance of a thought, does it please him? I'm very Dom, very Alpha and very Head of Household....and very strict.