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Master seeking true slave.

Looking for a relationship that is more about the emotional and psychological aspects of D/s. This isn't about kinky sex and toys, it is more about the mind and the thoughts/feelings connected to this. This kind of relationship is based upon the psychological interaction between two people. The overt acts of submission are really an expression of the mental thoughts and desires. If you don't get this, we won't click. If there isn't an emotional and psychological connection...it just ends up being a game. In addition, I think it is wrong to set a boiler plate of what a D/s relationship is or isn't. Every relationship is different...the goals, desires, needs, etc. Both parties enter into any relationship with expectations and desires that may not necessarily be perfectly aligned with one another....key is to mesh those so both are fulfilled.

Looking for one that is willing to listen and learn. One that is willing to abide by rules that will exist during everyday life. This would not preclude appearing normal and vanilla, however we would both know that even while out exploring, enjoying a dinner out, taking in a movie or whatever, you are serving in some capacity.

I am a multi-faceted person with many interests and activities outside the lifestyle. Having said that, I also have a wealth of knowledge and experience in the lifestyle as well. I firmly believe that fun is the key to life. After all, we only do it once....why not enjoy it! On a similar take, life is too short to play games. I won't do that, expect the same in return.

stricjanna
 
 Age: 28
  Pennsylvania