Are you up for a challenge??

The challenge is not in breaking me; but, in recognizing that in allowing me to be me I become free.

I have no patients for players or games. I know this lifestyle, the rules to it and my place in it. I am fiery, strong willed and even stubborn sometimes. But I also have a true submissive nature and give my all to the one I choose to give control to.

My interests outside of the lifestyle are varied and I enjoy a number of things. My main goal, is to enjoy life. I do have responsibilities in my life and take them seriously.

I can also switch to top both men and women. Hint, hint - see fiery, strong will and stubborn above. LOL :) Being a switch is fun and I do enjoy it at times but I am a submissive by nature.

Please understand that I do know who and what I am. This is a journey and I am looking forward to enjoying it. I am looking for friends but am open to a long term relationship if it was to present it's self.

The type of person that I'm lookinf for would be someone who is willing to be real and knows what they want. Players/pretenders need not apply!!! Also, please don't waste my time asking for discreet (behind someone's back) get together.

You must have a positive attitude with life. Be willing to laugh and have a good time. Of course, actually having an intelligent conversation at times is also important. It is not enough to just be able to stimulate the body but the mind as well.