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Freud would have a field day, analysing my lower tidbits and perhaps so will you... I've come to a stage in my life to appreciate quality over quantity. Time and timing mean everything, albeit floating as grains of sand passing through an hourglass figure. I have loved and cherished before, sometimes reciprocal, in vain on occasion and learned how to turn indifferent to those who don't match the spark to my flame. Could passion reconcile with care? - I have often wondered. Such should be the core definition of a soulmate, a bond beyond ropes or ties. Am I foolish expecting to encounter One on this site? Surely kink is important, but I am much more demanding in other areas. As far as fitting in boxes and attaching of labels goes, I suppose I am a switch with a preference for submitting, simply because I enjoy the pleasure of my partner more than serving my own needs. I could never thrive in a confined 24/7 setting however. I require change of pace, mutual support and respect, diversity and intimacy over a one sided impoverishing gimmick. My Ideal Person As the headline might suggest I fancy an ebony or oriental flavour as a sense of physical taste, but far more important than the superficial wrapping is the intellectual content that a woman exhibits. An eagerness for life-long-learning, a willingness to try and discover new things and an open mind impress me more than degrees or pedigrees. Eloquence, natural charm and a wicked sense of humour are the icing on the cake to swoon me over. I dislike mediocrity and pettiness but I can discern happiness in simple matters, clouds caught in shadow play, a clumsy puppy, a little girl's smile. My job is a public affair, so I will not post recognizable photos online. I will send you pictures in private however, if both our interest is raised. I promise you you won't be disappointed. Feel free to ask me anything. These scribblings are merely a first draft, which I (probably) update over time. As you might have noticed, I am a perfectionist, but I would be glad to study your imperfections and adore you for having them/me(?), despite my flaws...
seducedbysam
 
 Age: 31
 LethbridgeAlberta, Canada