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I want a long-term relationship with a kinky D/s aspect to it. I love the thought of being dominated in the bedroom by a man who is my best friend outside of it.

I am inexperienced with all things sexual, but I've read and heard a lot.

I want to find a friend and have that develop into something more... I've noticed that relationships that start with a bang tend to go out with a bang.

Some of my fantasies/fetishes/whatever:
-being forced to beg
-being physically dominated (wrestling me to the bed, etc.)
-being forced to admit that he owns me
-name-calling: cuntslave, fuckhole, cumbitch, etc.
-monogamy
-being fucked while I'm asleep
-being "forced"
-taking care of him... cooking or laundry or whatever
-calling him Master or some other title of respect
-spankings

NOT interested in anything involving:
-children (I hope this is a "duh!")
-animals (see above)
-anything that belongs in the toilet
-severe pain play
-anything involving someone other than the two of us (polyamory, threesomes, or even exhibitionism)
-incest roleplay

I think that about covers it. If you want to talk to me, send me a message. Sometimes it takes me a while to decide what I want to say, so I may not answer for a while after reading your message. Please don't freak out if you don't get an immediate reply.

Really looking for someone I can talk to and be a good friend, then hopefully maybe more...

7/26/2009 9:10:36 PM
I received three messages from one person during a half-hour period while I was not online, the third one asking why I had not responded. This person was relatively polite, but seemed a little uninformed.

Reading over the reply I sent him, I mused that this information could be useful to other CM members as well.

I hope that someone is able to make some use of it, either to learn from it themselves or to help explain things to would-be suitors. If not... *shrugs* well, c'est la vie, non?
________________________________________________________________________

Dear --,

Thank you for your interest.

The reason I did not reply was because I had not read the messages you sent. I was not online at the time.

To check if someone read your messages, click the "sent messages" button in your mailbox. There will be a list of messages you have sent. The column on the right-hand side tells you whether a message has been read, and when.

Please remember that no one has to reply to any messages they don't want to. Women, especially, get a lot of mail on this site, and it would take too much time to respond to every message. It's not unusual for people to choose to respond only to the people they think might be good matches.

To get more replies, you could try mentioning something you read in a person's profile that makes you think she might be a good match, or that you would be a good match for her.

Using full words, like "you" instead of "u", can also help your chances.

Good luck on your search.

WiseInnocent
6/3/2009 5:57:34 AM

Okay, so before you hit ctrl+v again, I will save you some time:

If you send me a copy + paste message, fine. I don't have a problem with that. But if all you say is hi and ask for my yahoo, or my exact location, you will not get it.

Please don't message asking if I'm interested in something my profile clearly says I am NOT. If you can't be bothered to read my profile, I can't be bothered to correct you.

I want to get to know some people, make some friends. I don't want to waste my time with someone who doesn't really care who it is they're talking to. If you send out a message without reading my profile, that tells me that you're out for any female who will answer you.

I want to talk to people who genuinely think we might have something in common.

...Is that too much to ask? :(