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WintersBreath

Who Am I? Let's get the main one out the way, I'm a transgender woman that has recently begun to transition. As such, I'm still presenting a fairly masculine manner, I can understand that this might put a lot of people off and I don't blame you in the slightest for that.

If you're still reading, great! Beyond that I'm a bit of a geek, love board games, puzzles and rpgs. You're more likely to find me in a wee nook, nose buried into a novel than dancing wildly in a night club, but give me a chance to come out my shell and I can be as daft as a brush (even though that's technically not a real saying).

Kinkwise, I'm a fairly experienced kinkster, I've being exploring my kinky side for about 10 years now and having tried my hand a few things I'm comfortable and confident in my orientation as "submissive". Whilst I wouldn't necessarily call myself a heavy impact player, pain is an important part of my sexuality something that's only exceeded by a need to feel a deep connection with a partner. Which I think is what really drew me to BDSM, it's a way (for me at least) to contextualise feelings of intimacy and trust.
What Am I Looking For? Short answer; I'm not entirely sure. I'd say "anything" but that's not exactly true, I'd rather avoid being lured into becoming a minion for a would-be super villain, their retirement packages leave much to be desired.

I guess I could say I'm looking for new experiences and connections, if those leads to new relationships whether platonic or romantic, all the better.

How Will I Know I've Found It? Very good question. Let me get back to you on that one!
Melfindom
 
 Age: 30
 Mesa, Arizona