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Willing Victim seeks to be forced and tormented. It doesn't matter if you are male, female or transgender. What does matter is that you understand the difference between a willing victim and a submissive.


I am not a submissive. Serving willingly doesn't fill my cup in the slightest. I am also not interested in the romantic or caring side of dominance and submission. What I am looking for is someone to TAKE power away from me. I am into the thrill of being made helpless, knowing that the bondage is inescapable, that awful things (within certain limits) are going to happen to me.

I seek a combination of adrenaline rush and loss of responsibility. I feel that a submissive is always partly responsible for their situation. They chose to submit at the beginning, and they continue to choose to submit. As a willing victim I choose to walk into the spider's web but after that I am caught. Not SSC but rather RACK.

I created this profile to explore this aspect of my desires. I have been involved in BDSM for quite some time. I normally identify as a dominant, but I keep getting this particular urge.

Dominants who should avoid me as a bad match:

  • If you are going to want me to focus on pleasing you, then you are missing the point. I am not here to serve you...except as needed to avoid punishment.
  • If you have names you insist I not call you such as "bitch", "cunt", or "asshole". I want to be able to lose control of my rational mind and actually be unable to pay attention to protocols.
  • Dominants who insist on being caring and gentle
  • Like to chat and visit

A good match for me would be a dominant who:

  • Wants to be an asshole
  • Wants to use humiliation and degradation to break someone down
  • Is willing to push my limits.

I do have some physical limitations and I am very out of shape. Those are things we can discuss. I am not going to jump at just any dominant who comes along. I am also not here for sex although that may be something that I am forced into...something to discuss.

DEAL BREAKERS: smoking (I have asthma), drugs, weed (which some people bizarrely think isn't a drug), alcohol, drawing blood, and scat. Llet me know if you are interested or if you have questions.