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| Well here goes. I'm dominant, successful in life and in my past relationships, happy, normal, and sane. A self-employed artist I have good vision for what I want in life and I’m more than achieving it. I’m well traveled, have a nice home, with two cats and a bird - and everyone gets along fine. I have a large circle of interesting friends active in the arts and they’re becoming successful in their own rights.
What has been missing in my relationships is the submissiveness that I crave in my woman. I have to have it. I'm very sexual and I tried for a long time to deny this tendency to be dominant, but that of course didn’t work. I'm dominant, I want a submissive woman, and it’s as simple as that. When I write simple I mean simple – I live my life in a very outgoing way, I don’t need or want to display my dominance publicly, that’s not important. What is important is my emotional connection with my woman, our closeness, what we share and how we share it. My dominance is really I think a manner to go very far with my woman, and for her to go very far with me.
What I’ve learned, and why I’m here on craigslist, is that this particular kind of spark - bedroom dominance - just has to be there for me as a basic element of what I need in as a basis in a successful relationship. I don’t think that’s bad. I’ve tried all the other ways but they haven’t worked for me. I know now that I don’t have to conform, that I don’t have to try to live around this, I just have to hope that by posting here I’ll have found a woman who had the courage, or necessity, to type ‘submissive’ into her search looking for someone like me.
Al that said I want an independent and strong woman, a feminist who believes in her animal nature and can express it, someone who doesn’t believe there are any contradictions in being a feminist and submissive, someone who believes that in fact the two points meet somewhere.
Be successful, wonderful and gregarious, full of sunshine and inspired by life. Believe that the (very) old adage 'behind every great man is that great woman' is cliché and common only for the reason that it’s true and has been around forever. I want a great woman; I'm an interesting, open-minded man who makes his way through life quite easily. I want the support and happiness that a great relationship full of intimacy brings, I want a world unto itself. I can only have that with the right woman and I’m a little scared I won’t find her. Needle in a haystack? If need be I’ll narrow the search that far, because if I don’t find her it isn’t worse than compromise, compromise is in fact a fate far worse than living without (powerful) love.
I’m white; 6’, handsome, in great shape, lean body, very healthy, and seek the same qualities in my woman.
Please respond with a photo, be the one on the left, or the right, it doesn’t matter. Just be somewhere in the picture.
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