Hello my name is Joseph. I know what I want and I tend to be submissive with the right woman. But I do like the Dominant side of me.Yet it does not mean I am a doormat. I do have aggressive traits in the gym and in competition. I look and can pass for someone in their late 20's but I am fourty two. I have lead a good life and would not change anything I have done, accomplished or will do.

I am 6'3, about 120 kilos but most people think I weigh 100 kilos or less. I am a track and field athlete and compete in Olympic weightlifting. Doing my best has always been important to me. I have black hair and brown eyes. I am hard and defined. I have many interest in BDSM and the vanilla.

I am sort of a geek in that I read a lot and have some unusual habits. I travel nationally and internationally for meets so travel is not a problem.
I travel all over the United States to compete. So far I will be going to compete in the following areas: Atlanta, Greenville, SC, Charlotte, NC, Raleigh NC, Baton Rouge, LA, Birmingham, AL, Richmond, VA, Washington, DC, Straudsberg, PA, Indianapolis, IN. We could meet in one of these cities.
I seek safe and sane activities. I will not do animals, other men, fire play, knife play, scat or water sports. Above else be smart , safe and sane.