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I know that this is the part where most dominants tell you what they want you to know about them and what you will be to them but with this being a work in progress I going to jump right into it. The problem I have with that is that it really does not give you the feeling of what I may be like and how I may impress you. You must agree that in its rawest, most simplistic , it is about desires and needs. Yours and mine. Lets just say that I am one of unique people that can make you will feel many things about. I am a strong personality but also a carring and warm one. If you are not sure what I mean by the things I am saying look into the meaning and difference between the word dominant and domineering. If you understand this then you will have a better understanding and desire what I am and what I offer. When you look into yourself what do you see. That is always a hard question and so I will ask more importantly what do you feel? What do you desire, crave and hunger? What is the need that causes that uncontrollable feeling inside yourself maybe starting in your stomach then spreading out to your chest and down past you lower half, your thighs and then your feet, till it is felt thought you entire self. Now, a Dom may say that it is about you giving yourself and merging your strength with them and this is how you attain your freedom and achieve these feeling. But like others, I know that this is a minute part or small explanation of the true understanding of why this is. If you have been with a Top before (or if you have not experienced this yet and dream of it), when you have finally come to give yourself in that moment, remember back. Was it the moment or idea of giving yourself, or was it the feelings that you had at that moment that allowed you to be free and give yourself? Now that you remember this, it is because of what you felt, yes? To allow you to give yourself to me, I must be able to unlock the feelings and desires that you have in a safe, trusting and exciting manner and more importantly to allow you to search and experience these without remorse or being judged. Then again the feelings and experiences you may not have realized that you can and will have yet. On the other side of that coin is also the feelings that can hinder your freedom. How many times have you hesitated or bypassed something wonderful because of fear, or concern of what it will feel like if someone else knew or didnt understand these needs you have. What about the things that you told yourself you would not do but later, in time with that right guide, you address that feeling and realized that maybe it was wrong or needed to be reevaluated so that you could get to that wonderful sweet piece of candy that you have been denying yourself of. Do you also realize that when you have done this in the past that there was usually someone there to help with that struggle and help you thru it. Have you also told yourself you would not do something ever, but then realized later down the road that that it was the wrong decision. Imagine how different things would have been if you realized that the rule you made for yourself was wrong or outdated. Feel freedom without the burden and confusion that is keeping you from what could be. Or even in extreme situations needs to stay in place for the larger good but as with many things in the real world there was an exception. Now with all that said think of how amazing you will feel if you had to reverse or make exceptions because the feelings that you are having is so right and so strong that you are just in turmoil because you desire the what could be? Now here is the important part. Is the Dom the key that can help unlock this or the guide that leads you down the path to find that key? This is what I believe and bring with who I am. Imagine that I can take you to these places that you can only dream of but with trust and respect, is that truly what you need and desire to take you to all those light and dark places you need to explore and experience, to release your desire and inhabitions? You also need that Dom that can show you the structure and guidance that will allow you to release and experience these feelings under my safe and watchful eye. So just imagine how I can make you feel and the adventures that we can go on together. Just as you have your beast inside, I have mine and over time have learned all the wonderful things it adds to my life by enabling it to be part of your life. Also remember that this is a relationship like any other except it is a very deep and complicated one that can also be one of the most open and fulfilling experiences that you can have.

Anyway that is just a small grain of what I am. I would tell more and try to clarify this but this is not the place to write a novel and if I am the one for you, you are feeling things now and understanding what I am saying. I will say that I am searching also. As you grow thru your feelings and experiences so do I. With that I must say that I will not settle for anything less than the entire quality package. I want the exceptional. You know who you are and will be de contacting me to learn more about ourselves. Also please know that I am a strong personality that can make you feel very safe and open or hanging that exciting edge. I also have a have a very wild and also silly sense of humor and find humor in everything including myself. When you have thought about it and want to know more. You can contact me here and we can talk.


TroubledSaphyra
 
 Age: 59
  Kansas