|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| I have been in the lifestyle for over 20 years, as both a Domme and a sub. At this time I am ONLY looking for bi females and lesbians who are seeking to play, part time or eventually LTR. Anything is possible. I am open to newbies, those who are only curious about the lifestyle and not sure what they want, and those who are experienced. I like my baby girls, not infantile play, but those who are more like that oh so hot naught but oh so innocent 16, but in reality are legal. I like Mommy/Baby girl, and Domme/sub. At this time I am leaning toward being more mono not because I prefer it but more because honestly with family and such I do not have the time. I need a sub to take care of, to spoil, to have that special exchange that occurs between Domme and sub... that magic.. I am for real, I also know how so many promise so much and dont deliver, I have been there. I am not like most, I am down to earth. I am also Loving and nurturing, and a sadist when I have a maso, and a sensualist when I a have a girl who loves sensuality.. if you meet my needs I meet your needs...
I am now currently living in central rural NY due to health reasons. This is a permanent move. I am no longer in Wisconsin as of July 2014.
Thank you .
Wikked
|
|
|
|
|
As of July 2014 I have had to move from Wisconsin to NY due to health reasons on my part. Due to health reasons it has become imperative at this time that I am surrounded by family and friends and am no longer able to live alone such as my daughter and I were in Wisconsin as we did not have many friends there and no family for six states. We can no longer live like that. due to these circumstances. The support of family and friends at this time is imperative. .
Rejoice in the moment and cherish your family and friends. |
|
|
|
|
Ok here is a general question for everyone. what the heck is up w Dominant males who are really switches and have a deep submissive. side using their profile to state tgey are a Dominant Male but when they write they are all about serving the female doing anything she wants and desires. Gentlemen please emvrace who you truly are and show us your true colors. How can a sub serve someone who is lying tto themselves about who they are? A Doms role among other things is to help and guide his sub become more than she was. If a Dom is not truly honest w himself about who he is deep within then how can he guide another ? I don't care what You are just be who ypur truly are... |
|
|
|
|
Sigh why is it I seem to attract such a large number of married or attached Doms? I have walked that path in the past and am in no hurry to relive the experience. . I fall feeply and passionately in love w my Dom he becomes the center of my world my reason and purpose. When involved w a married man I always come out on the losing end at the end of the day and get hurt emotionally very deeply. I hate being someone's dirty lil bdsm secret. I know this is not submissive talk but it is who I am. oi know how to make a Dom happy. I know hpw to fill that emptiness that black hole within Him I know how to feed His darkness and give him light. I know what kind of women I am and this woman does not deserve to be kept hidden away as if her beloved Dom would be ashamed of her. I am better than that. If this offended you I apologize but I will. not apologize for being the good woman I am ....and I am a great sub |
|
|
|
|
Thinking I might spend the day at the beach. its just too beautiful out. The warm water is calliing me .. laying on a blanket on the sandybeach sunglasses on readin my latest Stephen King novel Dr Sleep. The sun warming me inside and out...totally relaxed...yep this is my day. pack up the cooler and jet on out of here
.. warm waves hot sun sandy beach..here I come . |
|
|
|
|
Beautiful Summer Day= sundress and high heels. |
|
|
|
|
1. Due to circumstances beyond my control ie my daughter has severely sprained n twisted her back thus she is unable to travel for long periods . I will not be coming back to wisc til Aug 1 . At that time I will be staying for a month.
2. I will not reply and will automatically delete and then block anyone Dom or sub who messages me in anyway regarding Seeking Lifetime. I have no need nor want the drama that this individual brings w him . To call him a Dom is giving too much credit where it doesn't belong. So if anyone has anything to say regarding him keep it to yourself or share it w other drama queens I don't need nor want the hassle.
3. If You are interested in me and a fellow Dom contacts you telling you negative things about me know it is Seeking Lifetime disguising himself. H often does and has both female sub profiles and several Dom profiles on here. Anything and Everything he says regarding me is lies. He is a online fake who I made the mistake in getting caught up in back in October of 2013. If you have questions or concerns ask me I wont lie to you. I am direct honest and very blunt . I cany stand game players and those who hurt others as I have been. so ask me first. I will tell you the truth I have nothing to lose. thank you for understanding a |
|
|
|
|
Packing up for my trip back to Wisc. can't wait to be back in my own house. That feeling you get when you walk in after being gone several weeks. ahhhh. what shall I do w my 10 days .... besides mowing lawn pruning bushes trimming and weeding cleaning house grocery shopping and just sitting enjoying the quiet night ....my idea of heaven is Wi...just wish at times I had someone to share things with. If not for the lonliness n need to serve my life would be complete. |
|
|
|
|
Ok pity party over head out of ass back to embracing my life and living for and in each moment. going fishing today w the child. hopefully we will catch some lol if not I eill work on my tan. Packing up for my 10 dy trip back home to Wisc. Missing my friends there . Wisc brings me such happiness joy calmness and peace things that. are rare that I treasure. I miss serving so much i ache and hurt within.. I miss the wonderful connection that exists between a Dom and sub
I will experience it. again one day when the time is right . |
|
|
|
|
Sometimes I feel like I am the square peg and everyone else is the round peg that fits into the round holes. I just don't seem to fit in any lifestyle. Im way to kinky for vanilla and I am not hard core enough for most Doms at this point . I am too Dom for my own good sub males don't do a thing for me . Only very Alpha males the more alpha the more Dom the more loving the more submissive I become the more my slave side comes out. sigh I just feel like I have no match... |
|
|
|
|
HAPPY 4TH OF JULY to Everyone. I hope You all have a wonderful day w family and friends subs slaves Doms and Mistresses Daddys Mommys and baby girls and boys to last a lifetime of memories. Live each moment cherish each second and enjoy it for all its worth. Have a absolutely wonderful day E/everyone .
wild |
|
|
|
|
I will be in Wisconsin from July 9,2014 to July 18,2014. And will.be in NY from July 19-the day after Labor Day. when I will be returning to Wisc. |
|
|
|
|
Hi I just want to write a quick note regarding messages. I appreciate anyone who writes to me and will reply to everyone. Sometimes I am unable due to familial responsibilities to answer immediately however I will answer as soon as I have time.. I also look like I am always online because I use my cell to check messages and don't sign out. So if You message me please be patient and I will reply . Thank You.
sincerely
wild |
|
|
|
|
My chinese fortune cookie reads lol " The best way to navigatr through. life is to give up all controls. |
|
|
|
|
Had a great day. went out for a leisurely lunch w my god daughter at Olive Garden . ladted four hours while we caught up on family gossip. Then this evening weny for a long nature walk w my teen scoping out fishing places. for this weekend. Anyone who doesn't have a fishing license can fish all weekend w out one and no fines. so we are going to take advantage of it. Leave early sunday morning and stay all day.. can't wait . get some major sun in . |
|
|
|
|
I am no longer interested in male submissives This included Doms who have a switch side and are sub.b.. I seek only ALPHA DOMS. I am sorry guys but I am only interested in female bisexual and lesbian submissives. If this should change I will address it in my profile. However at this time the only males I am interested in are Alpha Doms, and females are bisexuals/lesbians. I have 20 years experience as a Domme and 10 years as a sub.
As a Domme I am a combination Mommy/Mistress, and sensual/sadist. I am seeking female subs in all venues, short term, long term, play partners. experienced, curious, and newbies. I believe in Safe Sane and Consensual. You will always have a safe word, and it will be honored. I believe in listening to my subs dreams and thoughts and using them when they least expect it or have earned it .
I operate on a system of rewards and consequences, everything is earned, guidelines, clear cut boundaries given, tasks assigned and meant to be fulfilled by date. laughter and caring abound. I believe in a system built on Power Love and sexuality. I can either be the coldest bitch or the most loving Mommy you have been seeking...
Have questions, feel free to ask. |
|
|
|
|
As past experiences shape how we live I need to be up front and state that when asking for my contact info such as cell email and yahoo please be willing. to provide the same . If you get mine I get yours. I no longer take calls unless I see a number. |
|
|
|
|
I do not mean to offend but I feel I need to say this. I do not do what any Dom asks me to do just because they are a Dom. I only will do what the man who becomes my Dom my Daddy my Master wants for that is HIS right and something that belongs to Him and Him alone. As I will have earned the right the honor the privledge to sit at His feet He will also have earned the right to Own me all of me and that means me giving up the right to say NO forever.
I do not kneel for every Dom very few actually. I will only kneel to a very good man and Dom whose Power I can feel within me and as it flows over me. He will be a extremely special and rare Dom. But He is out there I believe this w all that I have. A man's man . A man who is true to Himself a law unto Himself who cares not what others think but lives by His Own Code and does what He feels is right . for that is a Dom who will also understand me for that is how I live. |
|
|
|
|
I am going to make this into a journal entry as I am recieving many questions about my life.
I am 47, no BF, seperated, (recently tried reconciling w/ ex husband too many differences , remaining best friends).
Currently I am splitting my time between SW Wisc and Central NY due to the health of my elderly mother, she is 88 years old and not well. She has her good days and her bad days. I am trying to be here as much as possible to enjoy all the family time we can before life changes. So consequently I spend one month in Wisc, and the next month in NY. vice versa. It is hard but something I need to do. I also recognize it will take a very very special Dom to be able to deal with this as I will not always be able to be there to serve Him 24/7.. However I hope that that Dom would understand my reasoning and the importance of why I am in NY so much and know that if He is in my life, there is No Other Man. That serving Him is my purpose, my reason, my rhyme and I would be His in every way. He is my world, no matter where I am... |
|
|
|
|
A little about WikkedNWild. I am a switch who is equally a Domme with submissive bifems and lesbians and who is also a babygirl submissive myself with slave tendencies at times.I only submit to truly very alpha males. The more alpha Dom the male is, the more submissive I become, and the more I enjoy the interaction. I have been around the lifestyle for 20 years now, the first 10 as primarily Domme, the second 10 as a switch. In all honesty I feel I have made a better Domme the last 10 years as being a submissive myself has helped me have better empathy and know exactly what my sub girls are experiencing and feeling while in a situation. I do not do anything to them I have not had done to myself. It is a rule of mine.
I love the 50s lifestyle, having the Dom be the HOH, living by His rules, dressing in the clothes He picks for me, and living on the schedule He sets for me, doing the things He wants when He wants as He wants. Pleasing my One is what ultimately fulfills me and brings me total pleasure and completion. It is almost orgasmic but quite more satisfying. I seek the wonderful deep Power connection between a D/s, that starts out mentally and progresses from there. For me the mental part is a HUGE turn on, and one of my biggest kinks is TPE. I love nothing more than taking Power from a Dom and throwing it back at him and making Him even more powerful than He was before. I have done this subconsciously for years and then people started pointing out that I do it. I realized I was feeding off the Doms Power and giving it back to Him tenfold and it turned me on wickedly..
Over time I have come to realize I do best serving a Dom who is a combination of Daddy/Master. I need the structure, the strict firm rules, the discipline, and the rewards/consequences combined with love and laughter a Daddy bring, along with the darkness of a Sadist. At this point I do not know anymore what I can do as a maso sub. Suffice it to say I had a bad experience with a Dom who chose not to stop when I finally used my safe word (RED, the second time in my life) but continued for another hour.. it broke me and I thought I would never be able to serve again. However I find several months have passed and I am craving the need to serve. I am aching for what only a Dom can give me and even more importantly knows how to do it and the ways to do it. I am yearning to find a connection and make someone the very center of my world, and have it revolve around Him always. To live as He wants me too to do as He wants, to live to make Him and only Him happy... to please Him on every level.. in every way. Mentally emotionally, physically, sexually,. To give HIM what He Himself is seeking and needing..
I have made mistakes.I tried to go back vanilla and could not do it. I have thought lust was love, and many worse things than that. but in the end I have grown.I am who I am. Most of all I am for real.
Wild
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
|
|
| |
| Age: 42 |
| Blgs, Mt,
Montana |
|
|
|
| |
