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I am happily married to a wonderful women who enjoys occasional bdsm. Would love to hook up with another couple/person and conversate about bdsm in a committed relationship and ways to have both. I myself am very interested in spanking and bondage and haven't explored much more than that. Living in a small town has its disadvantages when it comes to the grapevine so would love to keep interest as low key as possible. Especially due to work situations

6/16/2009 8:39:29 AM Okay so i'm having some interesting thoughts concerning my feelings about bdsm. Its not taking over my life, however I wish that I was able to explore more. I also wish that the non pornographic side of bdsm was more available than the pornographic side Socially, you have to dig for the non porn perspective. It is difficult to express to a vanilla partner an interest in BDSM when the visual material that is easily available seems to always involve having sex be it vaginally or orally. In that viewing it does almost come across "dirty" unless the person realizes that those videos are an over exaderated view of bdsm.  Its very hard to portray internal intimacy or sexuality on film so the easiest way seems to be to show the physical expression.