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| I feel I need to begin with this : unless we enter a master / slave agreement do not expect me to refer to you as master . It won't happen . That title is reserved for the one I enter that arrangement with and reserved for he alone. Likewise , I do not refer to dominants as Sir just because they profess to be a Dom . This is another title that is reserved for the one who earns it through my respect if we agree to enter a D/s relationship . Nothing turns me off and turns me away quicker than a dominant that wants those extremely regarded titles simply because they have labeled themselves as Dom . I do not refer to any man in the universe as Sir or master unless I submit to them period . And I find "Doms" who want these titles without earning them are normally the ones who are cyber Doms or extremely inexperience ones . The ones who are experienced and know the lifestyle understand the dynamic of the title and the depth of it .
And to add to the above - I only call one man daddy and that is the man I have known as daddy since my first birthday. More power to those who enjoy the daddy relationship dynamic , but this girl doesn't want any family members or those referred to as such , in any part of my mind or body during a sexual encounter .
Now on we go .....
To begin with , I am currently in grad school and working as well . Recently separated ( working on divorce ) from long boring marriage .
Well I am new to the lifestyle and I am open to new experiences with new people. I can't say I have much real experience. But I do know the true and pure art of honest and willing submission and have studied it through the little experience I had in five months of a sort of D/s relationship and I also have read a ton of great books. I can tell you that I honestly yearn and crave to find the dominant who is worthy of the amazing gift I possess , my submission . I look for the dominant who can cherish me and treat the submission I offer him as though it's the most incredible gift he has ever received . And at the same time always able to let me know , ever so subtlety through a look or a gesture , that topping from the bottom isn't ever going to be a possibility . I want a dominant who embraces my intelligence and doesn't cower to it but instead uses it to his advantage .
What I am seeking right now is a relationship with a dominant that is not at all intimidated by an intelligent woman. I won't submit to just anyone . Perhaps this is hypocritical given my inexperience but I want a dominant with experience that will prove to me that he's capable of taming me / dominating me and won't back down when I do try to see if I can push or nudge , not top , from the bottom.
He also needs to be intelligent and articulate and able to have good conversations where there isn't sex happening . I do not want a sex only relationship , been there and done that - doesn't work for me .It seems that poly apparently means a gazillion different things - and if it means you want a FWB play mate and nothing else , it's not me. Sorry .
I obviously seek something very rare and extremely hard to find . The good news is that I am in no hurry and will never settle for something in the interim . I am happy and content with myself and do not need someone to complete me . I will wait until I find the man I describe and then when I am sure I will offer him the priceless gift of myself and as such my submission .
I also want a Dom that is older than me - sorry again - it just works for me to be with older men . We all have our certain requirement list that others may not agree with , that's okay!
I am an open book , any questions just ask ?
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| Age: 38 |
| Saint Petersburg,
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