I am new to BDSM and I came into the scene late in life at 60years of age but then at least I have started. They say that the best Doms are those who start as subs or have at least experienced their own submissiveness and know what its like on the receiving end. With that in mind and because I started in the scene late, I have found a Mistress who is also my mentor. I am learning the art of domination via my own submission to her. She is a switch and as such, my ideal teacher. I shall continue on my voyage of discovery with her and would welcome any advice and guidance from any one who is willing to contribute to my education as there is so much knowledge that I need to acquire and having acquired knowledge and experience I then may hopefully be in a position to decide were my future lies as a submissive or dominant or I may be uncertain still and stay as a switch and keep searching but then who knows what the future holds.

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