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Fluffy service top? Sadistic Daddy? Boot Black, boot fetishist? Kinky Leathercrafter? Puppy Girl Trainer?spanker? Cuddler? Foot massager?
Im all of these and none of these, Im in the process of discovering myself and allowing myself the freedom to be vulnerable and to try new things with new people.
Im currently open to play and easygoing friendship based relationships, but not any heavy dating or capital R relationships.
What Im ultimately looking for in a partner
SubmissiveSwitch female, who knows what she wants, enjoys communicating it and doesnt expect their partner to be a mind-reader. Qualities that must be present are the willingness to be patient as I learn new skills and the curiosity to learn and explore with me. Someone who is willing to go to public events and workshops with me and evengaspfind an event they want me to go to them with, instead of leaving it up to me to have all the ideas for hanging out.
Another important trait that Im looking for, good conversation. We dont have to agree, but we need to at least be able to have a fun discussion about the disagreement. Everyones entitled to their own opinions, not their own facts
In the vanilla space, well get along if you enjoy reading, watching movies and TV and dont mind that Im 40 and still play video games. Generally Science Fiction and Military Sci-Fi are my preferred genres, but comic book characters and zombies get some time from me on occasion. I like all kinds of music, but if Im listening to something its usually a podcast, like The Nerdist. Currently in my car I have a George Carlin CD that Ive been listening to for the past month. Im also becoming crafty, learning various new skills, but currently concentrating on leather work. When it comes to news and politics, I just watch The Daily Show with Jon Stewart and call it done. Its not that I dont care, its just that its too triggering for me to watch the news on a daily basis, or get wrapped up in whats going on in the political realm.
In the BDSM space things I know I enjoy include Choking, manhandling, pinching, grabbing, spanking, face slapping, hair-pulling, whispering dirty things into your ear, over the clothes play, teasing, orgasm denial, physical control and restraint, giving orders, enforcing discipline.
Things Id like to explore include puppypetanimal playtraining, age play, role play, interrogation play, shibari, objectification, humiliation and many more. Odds are, if youre into it, Im either interested or willing to explore it to find out what its about.
An important note Skepticism, rational thought, atheism are important to me. Although spirituality and religion arent deal breakers, if you get annoyed when someone states things like acupuncture is bullshit, reiki is bullshit, theres no evidence there is a god or higher power, ghosts dont exist, etc.. we may not get along in the long term. Since Im talking about possible deal breakers, lets talk about substances. I drink rarely and havent gotten drunk in a long time, although I do enjoy a good beer, especially Guinness, sipped slowly. I also dont smoke weed. We can be friends if you do, and maybe go on a date or two, but if marijuana is an important part of your life on a regular basis, we wont be compatible.
Ok, thats about it for now. Feel free to send me a friend request with a short message or just a message if youd like to start a conversation. If youd like to get to know me off of the internet, Id be happy to take you on a coffee date, just ask.
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