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	Thank you for taking the time to look at my profile. I am not particularly good at filling these things in as I find it hard to “sell” myself. However here goes and hopefully you’ll still be with me at the end….. I’m a 38 year old submissive man, 6ft tall, average build with blue eyes. I’m not particularly good looking (see I did say I find it hard to sell myself) but I’m not ugly. In fact I’d describe myself as Mr Average. I discovered BDSM just over 10 years ago and quickly came to realise that I am submissive. In point of fact I feel that I can trace this back to when I was a child and believe that I was born this way. Over time certain experiences have merely acted to reinforce this. When I discovered BDSM it suddenly made certain pieces of the puzzle fit into place and I regard myself as a true submissive. Once I had discovered BDSM I tentatively put my toe in the water with online chat and play before moving on to real time experiences with a Mistress. I have discovered a great deal about myself both as a person and sexually during this time. At this point it’s important to say that I am married. I discovered BDSM after I married my wife and it was something that I had started to tentatively discuss with her as we always had an active and open minded sex life. Unfortunately during this time she fell ill and was later diagnosed with MS which has unfortunately nullified that side of our relationship. I also feel it’s important to make it clear that I love my wife very much and would do anything for her. As we came to terms with her illness any thought about BDSM etc quite rightly and naturally fell by the way side. However over time I found myself with the normal urges that a young man has and found myself going online to chat with like minded people in order to get some form of release. However it was during this time that I met a lady older than myself who started talking to me about BDSM. This rekindled my initial interest and since then it’s been an incredible journey. I know this most likely makes me sound like a total bastard which I fully appreciate as I find myself from time to time thinking the same thing. It can be hard to have this separate secret life when I love my wife as much as I do. I know these are just words on a page and they’re easy to type and to say however people who know me know that my feelings are genuine. I’ve joined Collarme in order to make some new friends and to hopefully find a Mistress who appreciates and respects my situation. I love my vanilla life with my wife and I would never want that to end. By the same token I have a very real need and desire to submit to a firm yet fair Mistress. I do appreciate that this is very much a “cake and eat it” statement but I feel that it’s important to be honest from the outset. Anyway as I say I’m not great at selling myself as you have no doubt realised if you’ve managed to get this far. Please drop me a line if you’d like to chat or just to say Hi and good luck to everyone when it comes to finding what they’re looking for.

10/10/2013 1:06:32 AM

I find it both curious and disheartening that I keep receiving a plethora of emails from Ladies who wish to call me their slave in return for a financial tribute even though that haven’t even looked at my profile.

I appreciate that some people are happy to pay a tribute but for me it’s a big red flag that suggests that they are not genuine Dominant Ladies, if indeed Ladies at all.

I am submissive (with a lower case “s”), not “Stupid!”

10/7/2013 2:12:40 PM

Not too sure why men keep sending me chat requests... No wonder the ladies on this site get a bit annoyed.

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Toronto, Canada