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Hetero Male Switch, 45,  Virginia
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WendyandPeter

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 WendyandPeter

 Male Switch

 Virginia

 5' 10"

 175 lbs

 45

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 08/30/04

 06/14/11

Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops

 Movies

 Museums

 Opera

 Begging

 Blindfolds

 Body Worship

 Bondage

 Breast Binding/Play

 Exhibitionism

 Foot Worship

 Hoods

 Masks (On Partner)

 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Medical Play

 Role Playing

 Spanking (Expert)

 Theatrical Scenes

 Tickling (Expert)

 Vibrators

 Body Art

 Meditation

 Photography

 Tattoos

 Intellectual Discourse

 Writing

 Jazz

 Atheism

 Buddhism

 Loves:

 Amusement Parks

 Fine Dining

 Travel

 Volunteerism

 Camping

 Climbing

 Horseback Riding

 Martial Arts

 Sailing

 Tai-Chi

 Ultimate Frisbee

 Yoga

 Canes and Crops

 Collars

 Corner Time

 Hair Pulling

 Orgasm Control

 Wax play

 Whips (Expert)

 Chess

 Horror Movies

 Art Collecting

 Cooking

 Painting

 Sculpting

 Archaeology

 Biology

 Chemistry

 Economics

 Liberal Politics

 Nihilism

 Philosophy

 Physics

 Poetry

 Political Activism

 Psychology

 Americana

 Classical Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Funk

 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music

 Opera

 Baseball

 Ice Hockey

 Soccer

 Swimming

 Tennis

 Likes:

 Beachcombing

 Anal Play

 Fire Play

 Fisting

 Gags

 Aromatherapy

 Curious About:

 Renaissance Faires

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Alternative Medicine

 Astrology

 Occultism

 Paranormal

 Badminton

 Dislikes:

 Clubbing

 Hates:

 Musical Theater

 Hard Limits:

 Bar Hopping

 Bird Watching

 Hunting

 CBT

 Diapers

 TV Sports

 Investing

 Conservative Politics

 Libertarian Politics

 1950s Household

 Cuckolding

 Female Supremacy

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Goth Lifestyle

 Victorian Household

 Catholicism (Expert)

 Christianity

 Islam

 Mormonism

 Scientology

 Auto Racing

 Body Building

 Wrestling

Experienced, Sane Dominant/Switch Seeks Submissive/Switch Female Playmate.

Whether you're just looking for a safe, no-strings attached way to learn the ropes, or you're an experienced switch/sub looking for a safe, sane experience, let's talk about the possibilities! I'm about fun and making things easy and simple for all. Guarantee: No sadness, no drama. I'm committed to making sure that time spent with me is a total escape from all that.

Warning: I'm very into tactile and erotic play, especially tickling - so, you know - if you list tickling as a "hard limit,' keep that in mind ;-)

Just a few words about me as a top & bottom.

In top mode, I'll pretty much do whatever you're into, so long as that doesn't include any of my squicks, and so long as you're up for doing what I'm into - after all, fair's fair.

In bottom mode, I like psychological scenes, ritual scenes, etc.  I'm not into heavy pain.  I can't do CBT, I'm WAY too much of a whimp for that.  Also, not into forced cross-dressing and sissy humiliation.  Nothing wrong with that, if that's what you're into, and I love my x-gen friends, but I'm not into it, so -- 
I've been in the scene for a very long time now, and through a million different phases and down a million different roads.  What I've discovered is that, for me, BDSM is primarily a head thing, and a lot about trust.  I do have a very accute sanity barometer.  I'm very careful about who gets into my inner circle.  I love different, unusual, eccentric people, but crazy is a deal breaker.  In my experience, crazy = dangerous, and I can't deal with dangerous.  Dangerous doesn't turn me on.  Well, not anymore ;-)

About relationships/friendships in general.  I believe that trust is a vital element of any healthy relationship, and all trust starts with honesty.  Honesty is the key.


I love erotic/sex art photography. For example,  I'm a admirer/supporter/defender of Mapplethorpe. I also admire the modern artistic concept of Suicide Girls very much. If I write to you to compliment your photographs, please don't interpret that as a come-on. I'm being sincere. I promise.

Just one more thing. I support the concept of community. I gues that makes me a communist :-)  It's really uncool to join a community forum of any kind and then act snobbish and exclusive. So if you're someone who has made it clear that you won't talk to some people here because of their race, sex, age, sexual orientation, etc., or, if you are generally putting out an uncool or caustic vibe, we probably won't get along.  I understand that some people are here to use the forum as a dating service, and that's fine, but being rude to everyone who doesn't fit one's "mate profile"  is obnoxious and immature.  If someone says "hi," say hi back.  Don't be a little shit.  K? 

P.s. - Maybe it's just me, but there seems to be a shitload of guys (and some women) on CM who look like Kenny Rogers.  The Willie Nelson look also seems to be popular, as does the Robert Goulet.  I promise - I swear - I don't look like any of those people :-)

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