I like many extreme things. My profile picture displays my genuine true real world initials that I require my women to wear in this or many other tamer forms. Such as ink, or on a collar or applied to jewelry.

Power is what does it for me. The more powerless I can make my partner the more powerful I feel. When she is powerless her femininity is enhanced. Even if all I do is place a pair of handcuffs on her - to my eyes she starts to glow. She becomes the most beautiful woman I have even seen. At the same time my masculinity is heightened.

Causing pain has its place of course but overall does little for me. Branding someone hurts, only a fool would deny that, but that is not why it appeals to me. Branding is the ultimate permanent mark that I can bestow. I look forward to developing a relationship of such extreme trust that one special woman asks me to do that. It is not something I want to try to enforce (even if it were possible) or to even suggest. I would want her to ask me for it. A big ask of course! That is why I value it so much.

I think of it as a permanent collar. Something that I would like to do to the one I meet eventually when we both agree to forming as permanent a relationship as we can imagine. Before that I would like a collar or other piece of jewelry with my initials on it. "Wearmymark." I like other things too of course. Bondage, blindfolds, candles even! Sensuous things not scary things. And of course I am more than my kink.

Having someone trust me to this extreme degree brings out my caring nurturing self and I take my responsibility to care for her and to not hurt or cause damage extremely seriously. Even though I like extreme things, I value safety above all else. Safety can only be achieved through communication.

So lets communicate and see how far it takes us.