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I am a professional, educated submissive male with some experience in the community. My past experiences have been mostly with pro Dommes but by far my most rewarding relationship ever was with a dominant woman who I dated a number of years ago. At the time we dated I was not "well versed" in the BDSM scene and as our relationship unfolded I learned a lot from her, both about myself and about the dynamics of power exchange. She and I were friends first and formost, we enjoyed having dinners out, talking about all sorts of things and enjoying each others company. Even when we would be out to dinner, or at a movie, etc she displayed a certain confidence and was self assured. Her every day demeanor was one of self assuredness. To the outside world we were a couple that enjoyed each other and where the woman was not subservient. Beyond that, I doubt nobody except perhaps someone in the scene could tell that in the bedroom our relationship was anything but vanilla. She was aggressive and took charge in a dominate but sensual manner. Together we explored bondage, whipping, humiliation, cbt, dildo play, etc. What was always nice was that our relationship was included a mutual understanding of each others desires so when a "session" ended we could still talk, have a cup of coffee and include each other in our "normal" lives.
Our relationship ended when she had to move to another state. We still e-mail from time to time and keep up with each other. When I told her how my marriage to my "vanilla" wife was beginning to become boring and unfulfilling it was she that recently suggested I post a profile on here and try to find someone local who might be interested in exploring with me. I will not lie, I am married, but uncertain where things are headed. Part of this is to explore with another woman, a woman who understands and gets pleasure from a dominant/submissive relationship.
Since I must be discreet, I have not included a picture. However, I am about 5'7, 150ish. I am in good shape and am considered to be good looking (or so I am told).
If your interested - let me know.
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