I am a 44 yr old Dom,
who had nearly given up
on finding anything "real."
One day I decided to check
out a chatroom in Buzzen, called
GoodGirls~BadGirls~Doms~Dommes
having found Myself in the right place
at the right time, and there she was...
evening-star
On Halloween, Oct 31st, 2008,
I asked asked evening-star
to make Me the happiest Dom in chat
and wear My collar...
To My amazement and extreme pleasure, she graciously accepted, taking the name,
«ēstaŗ»-©-Шaŗped
~*~ Masters Creed ~*~
Above all else
He cherishes His slave,
in the knowledge that
the gift she gives Him
is the greatest gift of all.
He is strict
and takes full advantage
of the power given to Him,
but knows to share the pleasure
that comes from that precious gift.
He is in control of himself
first and foremost,
so that He may control others.
As a stern and
demanding Master,
He can cause His slave real tears.
As the consummate lover,
He will kiss the tears away
without stepping out of character.
In times of trouble, a Master is
a supportive partner and friend,
never forgetting that
this is a loving relationship
between two caring individuals.
He is quick
to understand the difference
between fantasy and reality.
He would never
ask His slave to put Him before
her career or family
just to satisfy His own pleasure.
To win His slaves
mind, body, soul and love,
He must first earn her trust.
He will show His slave humor,
kindness and warmth.
He must always show her
that His guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable
and deserving of her attention,
that this is a man she can learn from,
and trust in His discretion.
He is romantic enough
to be protective and gallant.
When called upon,
He will fight
for His lady's honor.
He proves to her
that He is someone
that she can lean on
and depend on.
When it comes time
to teach His slave
her lessons in obedience,
He is a strong
and unyielding professor.
He will except no flaw,
nothing less then
perfection from His student.
Never does he use discipline
without a good reason .
When He does,
its always with a careful
and knowledgeable hand.
He is always open to
communication and discussion,
always ready to
hear her wants and needs.
He is patient,
taking time to learn her limits,
and knowing that
as the trust for Him grows,
so will they.
He never has to
demand ritual behavior.
She responds to Him
out of want to please Him.
Compliance from
wanting to please,
not the fear of punishment.
He understands
the fragile nature of
her mind, body and soul
and never violates
that trust given to Him.
He is secure enough
to laugh at Himself
and the absurdities of life.
Open minded enough
to learn new things.
Strong enough to grow.
His tools are mind,
body, soul, spirit and love.
He understands that
each partner gains
from pleasuring the other,
And both of them know
that love and trust
are the only bindings
that truly hold.
