Yay, Collarme is back up!!! I hope the business partners were able to work out all their differences.   oops, I see it's "CollarSPace" now, I stand corrected.

If you can't have photos in your profile that are of you or your work, and they are all from the internet, how do you expect anyone to take  you serious?   Men expect pictures of the women, but yet can't provide any of themselves.  In this day and age of cell phones, the majority of them have built in cameras.  A selfie (and not of your genitals) would do.  Just saying..

We lost a great person in our community this past weekend: MedFetDom.   RIP Jim, you will be missed by me and many others.

my baby is 17 today...

It's interesting how there are so many profiles of men that indicate they want women who know their place.   But men, do you know your place and your responsibilities as the dominant partner?  What do you have to offer?  A true d/s relationship is NOT about sex.  The sex only lasts for several weeks, a several months at that.  Besides, I bet half of you aren't that good to begin with anyway.  Otherwise, you wouldn't be advertising for a sex partner.  True dominance and submission is an aphrodisiac.

It's been a while since I played.  This afternoon will determine if I still got it.  (which I'm sure I do) but being a paid gig for the first time, (helping out a domme friend) I have no idea how it will go down, especially since the gentleman isn't a masochist, forces me to be more creative. 

I'm easily irritated today... the weather is changing and it's a bad back day for me.   So, if you're going to send me a message out of the blue, "today baby"  or anything on that line, I'm not into those messages ever.  But especially today, I'm going to find it very rude and speak my mind back to you, so I may sound bitchy today.   I'm just not the type into the little game playing that goes online. 

I had an unexpected moment of submission Friday night... it was intoxicating..

why is it that Cleveland doesn't have any sincere single men my age, that are dominant, tall and on the good looking side?    All my friends live so far away, but it sure is fun when we all get together and play and can catch up on the past year.   And to think, it started with a simple message nine years ago from someone here asking me if wanted to meet with a bunch of others for lunch/dinner to make friends.. and the circle grew from there.

I remember the day on here, one would post an ad for a disciplinarian and you'd have hundreds hounding you.   I'm tempted to take one of my friends up on their offers, but I'm afraid of what that would do our friendship.   That just goes to show you how much this site has changed over the past 10 years...

This site puts me to sleep anymore..

" if a women is not submissive to a man it is not because she lacks the ability to submit, rather he lacked the ability to create for her a place in her heart and mind to fall to her knees." anonymous

hah! I commented to a friend that someone didn't think I was able to inflict the kind pain they desire so I suggested recruiting a friend.   Her comment, "Now how are you not sadist enough"

I'm not looking for a submissive or slave play partner.   However, if you consider yourself a true service slave and you're willing to help me out with yard work and light chores around the house, I could use some help since someone rear-ended me again.  We might be able to work out something as I get to know you if you're a maso like I am. 

Why do people find the need to lie?  I can't understand it.  It doesn't do anyone any good and people get hurt.    I get mad, and then I get even and that's not a good thing.    

I'm not a piece of property, I don't come with a deed, so sorry, I can't be owned.  I am naturally submissive, but only to those who can naturally bring it out in me and I can count those men on one hand.  But mmm, that is such a yummy feeling.  And if I never come across it again, I will only be one's play partner.  I am a masochist and I do like to play.

It's kind of sad when you look at all the profiles across the nation and the majority of the men are submissive or crossdressers.   Where are all the natural manly men?

OMG, went on a road trip with friends to meet someone today... what a blast!