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Looking for someone to explore BDSM with.
I have been married for 20+ years in a mostly vanilla relationship. The bedroom has been an issue with us for years. However, outside of that we have a wonderful relationship. So rather than get a divorce over this, we've decided I would see someone else on a regular basis who also wants to explore the different aspects of BDSM. Yes, my wife is really ok with this.
Ideally, here's what I want:
I'll rent an apartment close to my work where you will live. I'll pay the rent and utility bills. You are free to work or go to college, etc. - I encourage you to have goals and work toward them. I will see you several times a week, staying over sometimes on the weekends. We'll work that out according to our schedules. Outside of our time together, you are free to do as you please.
A D/s relationship should be a strong need of yours, something you're serious about. You would be either sub or switch, and open to trying new things together.
You need to be disease and drug free; I am, too.
I realize this isn't the ideal situation for a LTR, and I know going into this that eventually you will want to move on. I'll accept this upfront, but will hope that we both learn and grow from the experience.
I have recent pics which I will share if we become interested in each other.
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