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Perhaps I am on an impossible quest, but try I must. I seek a mature man who believes deeply that he is submissive, but who hasn't yet had the opportunity to explore that side of himself. He is probably somewhat alpha in his everyday vanilla life. I am strict and demanding, but not a punisher per se. I do enjoy certain activities such as training a sub to endure CBT, light bondage, orgasm control, and obedience training. I am particularly attracted to thick-bodied men at least 5'10" tall. No offence to anyone, but I do know what I like.
The main (but not only) activities I want this submissive for are housework in my small apartment, cooking simple fare, and being my companion for occasional social or cultural activities. I do not seek marriage, or even a 24/7 living-in arrangement, but I do seek mutual
devotion and dedication. Our relationship will not be mainly based on sex, heavy BDSM, or pain. Although, as we meld and build trust, our private activities will undoubtedly deepen.
I am a "lone ranger" and need my space. I also have a chronic pain condition that can often be somewhat debilitating. I envision our relationship as partly online for training, and in-person every couple of months for several days of special togetherness. All to be discussed over time.
Unattached or attached applicants will be considered. However, if the hopeful sub is married or attached, he will be expected to arrange periodic visits with me.
If the conversation and repartee don't flow freely and easily between us, I will not be interested in proceeding further. A chat that consists mainly of me asking questions and the sub answering in one-word replies just doesn't cut it with me. I want to learn about the applicant, not just "Yes Ma'am, No Ma'am"
I expect manners, culture, laughter, honesty, depth, dedication. These are qualities that I possess. One step at a time, day by day, on the path.
I will expect and provide a picture when there is a good connection.
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