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I am naturally dominant and have a sadistic side. I believe in safe, sane play and always respect limits. Driving out the most carnal and primordial reactions is the greatest turn on for me. I am recently single and would like to find a full time sub that I could make a part of my life. Although I believe this to be so dynamic that no list can fully define an experience, here’s a list of some things I enjoy most: Bondage Control Discipline Conditioning Cum Control Chastity (short and long term) Blindfolds Collaring Nipple Play Tickle Torture I don’t have a single or even a few exclusive favorites. It is all about what combination of these will produce the strongest and expressive responses. I do have some activities which I will not consider. Some because they have no appeal for me, others because I consider them inherently dangerous or unhealthy. My HARD limits are: Scat Blood Needles Some of the things that I am looking for from my girl in our relationship: Capable of developing and maintaining a meaningful, intimate conection Cuddling at night A lady in public Dresses up to go out of the house Willing to hold hands Allows me to open doors A companion Service oriented Maintain a steady job (I have a full time job and I expect each member of my house to pull their own weight) Happy and bubbly (not expecting this all the time sometimes tough things happen in life but I want a girl who is generally more glass half full than half empty) High Sex drive (I have a very high sex drive and I am wanting a girl to be able to keep up with my needs) Smart (I am not looking for super genius but I plan on having conversations with her, I want a girl not a slave (*evil grin and giggle with a twinkle in the eye* sometimes we might role play master/slave but I ultimately want a girl)) Independent (I want my girl to choose me not because she needs me but because she wants me. I want her to make me proud to be her dom when she does a good job at work. I want her to be able to support herself if something were to happen to me. I want to nurture her independence in the world. When I hold her close at night she can let all of that go and depend on me) Honesty (I find this to be a necessary part of my life and I want a girl who can be honest and open with me. I know that this might take time for us to both reach this point and I want to clarify that end goal is to have a girl who knows she can always be honest and open with her dom. As a side note I will say that if a rule has been broken there will be consequences because that is what a good dom does and the consequence will be done in a loving and firm way) Loving (I am a very tender and loving dom, and I want a girl who will flourish from my love, adoration and firm and gentle touch. I want a girl who will be excited when I buy her flowers and just as excited when I show her a new flogger I have made) Silly (sometimes I am just a big goof, it is a big part of who I am and I have to say sometimes it is better to laugh and giggle than be serious. I want a girl who will giggle and squirm when I tickle her) Communicates (even if what you tell me is that you need space and cannot talk at least tell me so that I know you are not shutting me out) Can be new to this or a veteran, either is ok though I do find a special satisfaction in guiding the newbie through her first experiences. Developing a dynamic over time holds more interest for me than having several one night wonders so those interested in the potential for more get my attention. What I have to offer as a Dom/Sir Protective (My girl when I decide to collar her is mine and I will protect her always, other doms or otherwise will not touch her without my permission. A girl is a very treasured property and I plan on keeping her safe and happy. Being protective can be in the little things, getting her flowers on a rough day or holding her close and letting her cry on my shoulder or sneaking up on her and giving her a tickle session to make her giggle.) Happy (I try to look on the bright side of life and in most cases find a way to smile about what has happened though usually I prefer to giggle and tease) Nurturing (I have already covered some of this in previous notes but I am wanting to specify here. I am a nurturer I like to see the people I care about happy, and I am told I am a kind hearted man by many people. There are so many small ways this can be shown from a simple sexy wink at my girl as we pass each on our ways to work or a massage for girl when she is stressed) Observant (I learn quickly when it comes to people and what they need specifically and I find that I am able to use this skill in the scene. I still expect there to be clear communication in the scenes when I am spanking or using my girl) Safewords (I respect safewords and hold them sacred. My girl will never be shamed or belittled for using safewords. I prefer to use the universal Safe Words Green {yes please spank me more Sir/ come on you pansy is that the hardest you can spank me} Yellow {Need to pause and not do anything until I am ready sir/ Sir pauses the scene and checks on his girl usually this includes head rubs or physical contact of the girl’s choice that helps her feel safe/ yellow can also mean that the scene needs to end but that Sir can transition and slow down the scene to end it. Yellow is a good time to switch from spanking to kissing instead so as to maintain the scene and help the girl feel safe} Red {Scene ends now!!! cut the ropes restraining me and move immediately to After care/ This is used when in physical, emotional or mental danger} Aftercare (I expect and will always do aftercare with my girl. I understand what a girl gives up when she puts herself into my hands and I respect and honor that. All aftercare should be negotiated beforehand. I understand that Aftercare is the time to bond and have a very beautiful intimacy with my girl.) The shortened version. If I find a girl who is compatible with me, and I with her, my end goal is to have a 24/7 dynamic with her living with me and the wife. Sleeping arrangements like everything else in my dynamic with my girl is negotiable. I am fair minded and will hear you out. Final say is my decision if you decide to be my girl and I decide to be your dom. I am playful in bed and life. I am nurturing and caring while still firm and dominant. My technique is playful and very observant. As a final note I do have references with those I have played with and also friends who are in the community. If it appears that we are interested in meeting I will be happy to provide them.