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Wanderling

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Honestly interested in service playtime and miscellaneous romance (preferably both). Probably best described as a service FWB, using the common vanilla vernacular. In an open marriage, seeking married (or at least an open minded person) because only married or open-minded people can understand kink sometimes. I realize this isn't your normal profile, so, I want to state it all up front so as not to waste your time if you're not seeking someone like I am, and, so as to attract those who do seek what I seek, rare as you may be in reality. My perfect world would be to add to your life, in a submissive service oriented way, all the while with you keeping your vanilla life the same, and me keeping mine (which isn't sexual). I basically see, a miscellaneous romance with a woman who wants daily or weekly service, at her whim and command. For example, it would be lovely to be naked before you told to gather up a basin with warm nice smelling soapy water and soft sponge, and to kneel at your feet to softly bathe them gently and with attention to detail, and then to let you relax with your head back as I warmly shampoo your hair from the root to the tip, massaging your scalp to complete relaxation as the sweet-smelling Joico shampoo invigorates your hair.

Then, in the shower, kneeling as you stand before me, I would be told to wash your legs with a washcloth and pure natural white soap, making sure the muscles are massaged and cleansed at the same time, from calf to thigh and beyond as desired. My large hands would clean and caress every curve of your body as you see fit, all under your control and direction.

The goal is for you to simply relax. close your eyes, and let me do all the work until the job is done to your satisfaction. Might you be interested, please inquire within, and be advised this is not for 24/7 and that it's ok if you are married as I am in a similar arrangement myself where there is absolutely no cohabitation, easily provable once you get to know us).

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10/23/2015 11:47:49 AM
I posted this on a thread regarding findommes versus femdommes ...

If I'm to guess, [Warning! I usually guess wrong] I think the whole fEmdomme/fInDomme mismatch is a function of the mismatch between what men and women desire in sexual relationships.

The women want the whole enchilada, while the men [Warning! I am very often wrong!] seem to fixate on the chili pepper sauce alone. The spicy stuff. Not the mundane but deeper meaning beans and cheese relationship stuff.

So, what we often do [Warning! Many say I'm always wrong!] is go to the FinDomme for what turns out to be just the outside corn tortilla and the spicy chili pepper sauce, which is what we were after all the time.

Then, after a few of those ... as it slowly dawns on us how empty the corn tortilla with chili saice feels, emotionally, we begin to complain that the findomme is providing an empty femdomme experience.

Yet, [Warning: I don't think I have yet been right!] we created a demand for a product that was devoid of any possibility of satisfying in the long term in the first place!

10/23/2015 9:09:28 AM
I have been finding things interesting, but not at all what I had in mind! I guess that's normal, isn't it?

My idea of femdom isn't exactly anyone elses idea of femdom (my spellchecker keeps wanting to turn that into fiefdom, which is funny when you think about it).

My idea is more focused on doing things for someone, where most others' idea seems to be being in a female led relationship overall. It's interesting, but that makes it hard to find someone who wants just to be served for the fun of it.

Is that too much to ask or too hard to find?

10/21/2015 10:11:06 AM
Someone asked what my first experience was serving a couple, to which I replied...

"Yes", I have served a couple before. The first time was back in graduate school, where I answered an ad for a room for rent which turned out to be from a Psychology professor at the school whom I became good friends with over time.

He and his wife chose me because I volunteered at school for a lot of things (the school experiments, the local cleanup of the parks, the freshman orientations, etc.).

After living with them for a month or two, he and his wife approached me with a proposition, which I readily accepted, and from then on, I was their very own live in "boy toy" throughout my graduate school days. Over time, I diligently cooked for them, meticulously cleaned for them, and carefully cared for them. Overall, it was a wonderful once-in-a-lifetime experience, and it only stopped when I moved away after school to work.

10/15/2015 6:01:57 AM
I am passive and so I am hoping you will ask to meet so that we may begin to fulfill
our mutual fantasy of a FLR with a submissive who is your devoted play puppy.

I would be trained to serve you rib eye steak, spoon feeding you the mashed potatoes and vegetables, and preparing your green tea just the way you like it, all the while being naked before you and being your puppy/pig as you wish.

Afterward, you whisper in my ear to bathe you, massage you, and pleasure you all to your specifications and satisfaction while you sip your coffee with two sugars and half cream, and I do all the work. You relax on the couch while I pleasure you to your commands.

It's all about your pleasure. You train me to please you. If I am good, you ask me to return, where again, I am always naked in your presence, crawling on all fours before you, eating what you put in a dog bowl on the floor, and licking you wherever you wish to be pleasured.

I would love to meet with you at your convenience to begin serving you.
Just let me know when/where.

10/14/2015 9:46:03 PM
I am seeking one, and only one, play partner, someone who can be a mentor, a friend, and an Owner.

10/14/2015 3:44:44 PM
My hair is normal length, dark brown,and soft, and long enough for you to grab with your small hands to hold my face in your pussy for me to lick or press the face dildo into your crotch. You can control my head motion, if you like, with your hands wrapped in my hair (which is a couple of inches long).

I will use my strong tongue on your pussy for as long as you like, even if I am very tired, I will keep going, to pleasure you. Once you are pleasured, and bathed, I will dry your whole body, slowly and with a super soft towel, starting with your hair and face, neck, breasts, and down to your backside, hips, legs and feet. After that, we work down again, this time with the scented body lotion, to keep your skin smooth and soft.

If desired, I will paint your toenails, each and every one, red, and then paint your fingernails similarly.  Then, as you relax, I heat up the green tea to just the right temperature, to serve it to you with cookies. I will hold the dish before you, or you can place it on my back as I kneel on all fours, like your pet on a leash, before you, for you to put your legs upon like a soft foot stool or movable coffee table.

In the morning, I would prepare your  ''Hot Chai Tea Latte'' just like you like it, with milk and 2 tablespoons of sugar, so that you can start your day relaxed and happy.


10/14/2015 1:45:41 PM
The goal is for you to simply relax. close your eyes, and let me do all the work until the job is done to your satisfaction. For example, when I suck your pussy, I do it on your terms, for as long as you like, as deeply as my tongue or face dildo will go, with you controlling my motion by grabbing my hair and shoving my face as deeply as you want, for as long as you want, until you shiver time and time again with orgasmic delight.

10/14/2015 1:39:26 PM
It would be lovely to be naked before you told to gather up a basin with warm nice smelling soapy water and soft sponge, and to kneel at your feet to softly bathe them gently and with attention to detail, and then to let you relax with your head back as I warmly shampoo your hair from the root to the tip, massaging your scalp to complete relaxation as the sweet-smelling Joico shampoo invigorates your hair.

Then, in the shower, kneeling as you stand before me, I would be told to wash your legs with a washcloth and pure natural white soap, making sure the muscles are massaged and cleansed at the same time, from calf to thigh and beyond as desired.  My large hands would clean and caress every curve of your body as you see fit, all under your control and direction.

The goal is for you to simply relax. close your eyes, and let me do all the work until the job is done to your satisfaction.

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MistressBel
 
 Age: 30
  Illinois