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| I am a male Dominant looking for a female submissive. I'm looking for a real life sub, first contact through email, then phone, then in person. Previous experience is not required. Applicants with a picture will receive first response.
Things I look for in a sub: Honesty, sexual openness/desire, physical attractiveness (for what I find attractive you'll have to talk to me further), intelligence, obedience. Obedience is the least important.....because that's the easiest to change.
As for what I am...the metaphor best describing me would be a steel hand in a silk glove. The right sub would become used to the feel of the silk...but she would never forget the steel is there. I am still exploring my likes/dislikes, some of which (likes) include: spanking, bondage, forced, tpe, and others.
Carpe diem
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I like to be positive, and accentuate the positive things about other people.? So I will phrase this as positively as possible:
I am looking for open, honest people.? Whatever you want or don't want, only through communication will you receive it.?
Open and honest communication requires trust and respect.?
This means trusting even BEFORE someone has "earned" it.
This means respecting even BEFORE someone has "earned" it.
We don't trust or repect primarily because of who the other person is, we do these things because of who WE are.? There is a lot of fear in the world, and on the internet in particular.? What people don't seem to realize is that fear will NEVER get you what you want.? Fear can only keep you from being hurt......and that is not enough.
I wish everyone, Dom/mes, subs,? and switches alike the strength to find the right person or people?for?them.? The strength to trust and respect someone from the start, until that person has been proven unworthy of it.? That is the only way you will find those who are worthy of it.
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