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WanderSub

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Not all who wander are lost." - J.R.R. Tolkien*

NEW first order of business: I am involved with a wonderful Dominant. We are both polyamorous, I am not collared, and we are not each other's "primary" (if you were to apply a hierarchical model). While I identify as poly, I'm not trolling for other partners. However, I am open to meeting new people in the hopes of finding people I click with. I recently changed my roll on here to switch, though I've been switching for quite a while now. For me, the important part is connecting with someone, whether they identify as a Dominant or a bottom or what have you, if our personalities mesh well, we can make good things happen. Second order of business: I no longer strive to be gracious and respond to every message. If you don't have something to say, e.g. at least a full sentence, then just don't bother hitting the send button. I will not even bother to respond to any messages that say simply "hi" or, "hi, how are you?" or the like. Make it worth both of our time and energy. Also, the chat feature on this site is total bollocks. I don't bother to mess with it. And I do not hand out my IM information until some substantive messages have been exchanged. I find there's a lower incidence of me later having to block people who seem normal in the first couple messages, but later want me to engage in sexual acts with my cats. True story. Your next question is, "Are you sure you're a submissive?" My answer, "Sometimes." Regardless of my head space, at no time am I a doormat. Respect is not a right simply by orientation. Neither is lack of respect towards others. I am not new. But I am. I have experience. But I also lack it. I crave knowledge and inspiration, but sometimes, I just want to turn it all off. I have gone back and forth on the point of just deleting this profile altogether. I have met a few very wonderful people on this site, so I cannot discount it entirely; however, the lack of general message content, let alone message content that interests me, is discouraging. Feel free to prove me wrong. In some ways, I am still figuring out who I am and, thus, still figuring out what it is I want/am looking for. Things that made me raise my eyebrows three years ago, now top my fetish list. And I fully expect it all to evolve again, still. I have struggled with my submission from day one. It is something that only exists under the right conditions. I've been called a "mouthy smart ass" who, when she finds a weakness in a man will eat him alive. A partner of mine actually said that about me. Sometimes I think he was just being hyperbolic, sometimes I think he was spot on. He still has all his appendages. But I totally own the "mouthy smart ass" part. With pride. But I do know what works for me and that's the mental connection. It's really either there or it's not. And it always surprises me. Floggers and canes and the violet wand are fine and lovely, but alone they are very empty and superficial experiences. I want more. A simple graze of the finger tips from one who inspires that dynamic, that helps me to access the submissive part of my brain, is infinitely more powerful. And I do not question my deep desire to bring Him a beverage and then sit at His feet. Random bits about me: I have a favorite punctuation mark and a favorite font, but I'll never be able to declare a favorite book, movie, or piece of music. Not even if you tied me up and tortured me, but please feel free to try . . . Metronomes make me gleefully happy. I struggle with discord, but like the rug pulled out from time to time. I wish I didn't need to sleep. Ever. I say please and thank you and will respect you more if you do too. I Google everything. For someone who isn't a narcissist, I have a disturbing number of pictures of myself. That being said, I prefer the safe side of the lens. I have a soft spot (or is that wet spot?) for slam poetry. And, really, for words and language in general. On the page, on a wall, on my body, on someone else's body, spoken, yelled, whispered, dissected, defined, redefined, translated, alliterated. The OED is like my porn. Conversation my foreplay. While I've had partners who were much older than me, it's rare that I click with people where there's a huge age disparity. There reaches a distance in age when we no longer speak the same language. My main vanity comes out in height. Please be at least my height, or, better yet, wildly taller. If you want to get my attention . . . make me laugh. -Wander * I just like the poem. Your Elvish will be lost on me.

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1/28/2011 11:55:44 PM

Good news! My fear that I might over use this journal is totally absolved. Go me. 

Since I changed my role to switch on here, I've been getting a plethora of profile views from submissive men. As in, 90% of my profile views are from submissive men. I'm not complaining as it's really quite flattering to be viewed, however I thought it was an oddly drastic jump. No jump, drastic or otherwise, in well written, coherent messages from any demographic. Ahhh, CM . . . 


3/22/2010 6:11:36 PM
Best bad message I've gotten in a while: "look up into my deep blue eyes as you slowly sink down to your knees before me.." No, really that's all the person wrote. And both periods have been left in tact. I wonder if that really works on anyone?

1/30/2010 2:05:50 PM
I wish when message alerts from CM came into my email, they would show at least a snippet of the message. 99% of the time, my password is longer than the message. Better content too. Seriously, that is all you have out there, CM?

10/31/2009 4:49:50 PM
She handed me a notebook and a pen and said, "Tell me who you are." I said, "I'm going to need more room."

10/23/2009 5:45:08 PM
So, what does it mean when someone becomes your "admirer"? Is it meant like a bookmark, an "I think this person is groovy, but I don't have time to communicate with them right now/am involved with someone else"? Is it kind of a soft approach, an "I'll toss out that I 'admire' them and see if they are interested too"? Something else altogether?

10/21/2009 1:26:38 AM
Ever wonder how much mail MissSix gets? http://www.collarme.com/details.asp?px=MissSix

10/19/2009 8:58:42 PM
I'm here to save you some time. Answers to your most commonly asked questions . . . What are you looking for? I'm looking for an alarm clock/answering machine/coffee maker with a 1 gallon capacity (self-cleaning). It should also vacuum the floor while I'm at work. If you know where I can obtain such a thing, I'd be willing to pay top dollar. What do you like? Post-Its, book stores, taking pictures of my feet, pears, dessert spoons, fifth gear, Fresh Sheet Day, onomatopoeia, brunch, shiny things, rants about cream cheese, mandolins, forks with only three tines, sky writing, maps, building forts out of couch cushions and blankets, airports, and red pandas. I'd like some more challenging questions. Thank you. -Wander

10/18/2009 11:28:00 PM
Sometimes, I think I only keep my CM account around for the entertainment value . . . This is the best message I have gotten in ages. The personal information has been redacted to protect the idiotic. The grammatical and spelling errors and spastic punctuation have been left as received. "You realy need to be more submissive, your more like a female Dommie,,, I have two choice words for you and you have my number is you do not like what I am telling you,,,,,,,FUCK YOU. (XXX) XXX-XXXX Master XXXX" Back in the day, I would have been wounded by his statement that I'm insufficiently submissive. But these days, I rather think it a compliment, particularly considering the source. I especially liked how he is reinforcing my "female Dommie" behavior by giving me his phone number a SECOND time. It should also be noted that this email came with a very graphic picture of him having anal sex with some woman who is clearly more submissive than I. Damn, that coulda' been me! I countered following his format, "You really need to be more like a Dominant, you're more like an asshole. An asshole with poor grammar and no sense of humor. A dreadful combination. Thank you for the advice, but I don't have time to fuck myself today." (I had a party to help with, after all!) After that, he brought out the C-word, "and your more like a female dom/cunt/ that thinks here ass does not smell and it does,,,,,Master XXXX" I felt it best to not continue baiting him at this point. But I really liked how he indicated a relationship between "female dom" and "cunt" with the fantastic use of the /. That's just t-shirt worthy.

10/13/2009 9:53:18 PM
Today was a rough day, in a lot of ways. The heinous storm knocked down a big tree limb that I'll have to tend to. You know, the word "limb" doesn't do this thing justice. I've seen trees much smaller than this "limb." Regardless, I'm really not looking forward to having to deal with that. Where is my magic wand? On top of the storm and a very expensive, very protracted windshield replacement, things at work were rough as well. And stress has been seeping in at the corners. Never fun. So, when I got the following message in my inbox today, it rather made my evening. "what a babe, thanks for existing<3" That sweet boy couldn't really tell that from my pictures, and plenty of people would disagree, but it felt nice to hear and the whole thing gave me a much needed chuckle tonight.

10/10/2009 6:34:10 PM
Wow. Photo approval speed has really advanced around these parts. Bonus point to CM. -Wander

9/20/2008 2:29:33 PM
Haha, I just noticed that you can post journal entries in WingDings. They'll never break that code!

So I made a rather lame error when I attempted to upload a new picture. I forgot to select additional picture and accidentally tried to submit it as my main photo, which would not have been all that bad except that CM denied it. How rude! (Before you ask, it wasn't due to being overly risque or anything fun like that.) So, ideally, my old roped up picture will be back as before and my new picture will get approved as an additional picture.

4/1/2008 10:26:32 PM
THIS . . . SHOULD . . . NOT . . . FEEL . . . GOOD.  That's what he said.

Must be why I like spin class so much . . .

3/28/2008 1:23:20 AM
It was a good day . . . rather lacking in the requisite birthday spankings . . . but still a good day.

And next year, I'll have one more spanking to look forward to.

1/22/2008 9:54:20 PM
Hey, I'm alive! I'm just bogged down with stuff. Can never seem to get rid of the stuff. So it's going to take me some time to respond to my small backlog of messages. I like to respond with quality. ;)

11/10/2007 12:04:36 AM

I think I have/am experienced/ing my first sub drop, rather delayed. I'm sure it's been exacerbated by the fact that I have been off the usual endorphin routine (exercise) due to the horrible school project and catching a cold right after. Initially I assumed it was just the sick factor that was making me cranky and irritable and even more emotionally sensitive than usual, but it seems it's more than that. I finally got some gym time in today and then did some girly things and I am feeling a little bit better.

The weird thing is that I actually feel guilty about it; (1) because the play wasn't extreme in any way, and (2) because it seems disrespectful to feel depressed and upset when someone did something so wonderful for me/with me/to me.

Just when I thought I'd found some level ground. Lordy.


9/8/2007 12:54:03 AM
So school started this week. Yes, I'm still in school. :( And this semester looks as thought it will be spanking me well and plenty, just not in that good way you're thinking of, alas.

The sleep and sanity were nice while they lasted.

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