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wanderer46


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	In my world, a Dominant is one who takes care of his submissive - shelters, encourages, cherishes and disciplines. A submissive is one who complements and supports her Dom. Discusses with him and keeps to the agreed answer. Needs discipline and looks forward to it. The discipline? Hand, belt, cane, restraints, and so on. For when the submissive doesn't do as agreed or for the sheer pleasure of both. I am attracted to women who are younger than me and smaller than me - no, I won't explain or apologize. Come, ask, talk and learn.

11/7/2009 1:19:49 PM

What I'm smiling about nowadays: I see so many submissives (rightly) rant about abusive or form emails. I agree with their feelings - we're people here, with human needs and feelings. To be treated like a thing or a commodity is angering.

And yet........ and yet. Write an email to a submissive - not at all abusive and by no means formulaic and try to guess the chances of receiving an acknowledgment, never mind a full response.

What do you think? 80%? 50? 10?

I won't tell you my 'hit rate' but I will say this. You may well rant about how others treat you - and you're right to do so if you're treated badly - but treat others as you would be treated.

You want respect and to be treated as a valued human being then learn to treat others that way.

8/25/2009 6:02:31 PM

(laughing) Oh what a wonderful fantasy life is here on CM. I see a rise in the number of Nigerian 419ers - not unexpected, they're on all the personals sites now - but there's one thing that's really making me laugh. Listen, I mean what I say in my profile and while I understand people who have a wonderful cyber fantasy life that's not me. Let me tell you: If you want a quick chat, I'm happy to do so. If you want to have a longer relationship, I'll be pretty quick to get you to prove that you are who you say you are - I'm happy to do so myself. So, if you're a 50-something guy who types with one hand or you're a fourteen year old, pass me by. If you try to shine me I'll call you on your shit and you'll have wasted your time. In the meantime though, have lots of fun!

7/11/2009 3:59:27 PM

Interesting that I should feel compelled to write this - as, normally, I reject lists of conditions. Imagine, for yourself, why I have written.

I'm not looking for a temporary relationship. I am here because this is where people with similar tastes are and where I expect I will find my partner for life.

I'm not looking for someone who is somehow broken and who feels that this community is the only place where she can be made whole.

I'm not looking - in the first instance - for sex. I'm looking for a person and, while sexuality and drive are a part of all people, I'm not looking for a person who is defined by her sexuality.

That said, thank you to all the wonderful people who have made - and will make - my time here so enjoyable.