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Pan Transgender Dominant, 57,  Middlesex, Vermont
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I really dont do online play, friendships, or chatting. Appreciative messages are welcome, replies are unlikely. If you are within a 40 minute drive, I will make an effort to meet you.

I like femininity, I admire it in others, and enjoy expressing it myself. I also find combinations of masculinity and femininity really hot. Masculine women, feminine men, and all who have fun challenging the gender binary. Oh, and couples, couples that are interested in adding a third should message me!

I like rope. I have some skills in tying, and am happy being tied up, too. Perhaps I dont take BDSM as seriously as some. I dont want to own anyone, or be owned by anyone. Maybe Im just more realistic than some.

Im social. I like to go out and have a few drinks, dance, and laugh. Conversations about philosophy and the meaning of life.

I attend local munches when I can. Go to the drag balls when possible, and know enough folks in the community to get an occasional invite to a private party.

And Ill actually go meet you for a drink or something if you are interested in getting to know each other.

So, how about you? What are your interests?











Last Online:


 Dominant Transgender



 5' 5"

 135 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

Male-Dom Couples

Friends Only

 Lives For:




 Intellectual Discourse





 Anal Play


 Breast Play



 Local BDSM Community


 Massage (Getting)


 Pantyhose Fetish

 Role Playing






 Body Worship

 Canes and Crops




 Massage (Giving)

 Orgasm Denial

 Sensory Deprivation








 Foot Worship

 Curious About:



 Corner Time


 Electrical Play

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Genital Punishment

 Fire Play


 Gas Masks

 Hair Pulling



 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap

 Public Play


 Speech Restrictions

 Wax play







 Medical Play


 Housework Service

 Knife Play

 Hard Limits:

 Needle Play

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Journal Entries:
10/29/2017 3:36:29 PM
Refurbishing the big cage I got for free. Maybe be able to take in a stray pet soon. Just for fun.

1/26/2016 12:56:49 PM
Jan 26, 2016 Poking around Collarspace again. Further along on my journey to an unknown destination. I've been pretty active during the past year. A few paries and events, some LGBTQ activism and volunteer work. Really wondering where it will all lead. I've even answered a couple Craigslist ads and taken a few calls for hook-ups seriously. Mostly, the guys run like rabbits when you ask them to meet for coffee or a beer!

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