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This will be a work in progress, check back for updates, new chapters, new information. I'm 44 and single. Have been single for awhile now. I was married once, lost the wife in a divorce. Good move on my part. I don't smoke and drink pretty much once or twice a year. I don't do drugs. I say enough stupid things sober. I can hardly imagine what I would say if my mind was altered. I want a girl who understands our one on one relationship comes first. I want one devoted to me as much as I will be devoted to her. I am Dominant but I place the submissive in my life before others. I have no kids. I'm at a point in my life where I am doubting kids will be part of the equation. I have no problem if you have kids. I understand the whole package concept. If you are younger and wanting kids though I am very open to that idea. I'd be a great dad. Teach those kids to be the perfect smartass. Probably should have kept that part secret. Any age is fine. Well almost any age. 30 is probably as young as I would date (but if you are exceptionally mature, exceptions can me made but I am not holding my breath) because there seems to be to big of a maturity gap otherwise. I really hate explaining who the Beatles were. (And yes, I honestly had to do that once) As for older than me, I'm cool with that as well. If we get along, can carry on conversations, have similar interests, then write away. I like to be in control of situations but not controlling everything. I find that exhausting. I like the mental aspects of the life. Most of what we do is mental anyway. It's the anticipation, the waiting for the shoe to drop, the buildup that matter the most. I am not a sadist per se. I enjoy giving pain but it is not the main focus for me. I enjoy control of the mind. I can be an asshole at times. I freely admit that. If you enjoy acting out just to see how I punish you, please don't write me. I'll grow bored dealing with that. It seems childish to me. If you need a spanking, ask for one. Don't be disobedient just to get your ass smacked. If I choose to punish you it won't necessarily be how you want to be punished. Why give you what you want and encourage disobedience? I golf, read, and I enjoy surfing the interwebs. I am heading towards debt freedom this year. I hope not to reenter serfdom ever. I own my own car, I am going to be buying a house in the next year or so. I have two four legged dependents. I eat cheese. I can cook, I do my own laundry, and I smell irresistible when I am done working. I, as we all do, have pluses and minuses. That's the joy, finding out what makes a person tick. Write, what do you have to lose?
1/19/2014 5:43:58 AM

Head, head, and more head. My kingdom for some head.

 

 

 

It's good to be the king. 

12/24/2013 5:25:07 PM

What I feel for you is contempt. But it's nothing compared to the contempt I feel for myself. I don't love you. I've never loved anyone. I wanted you from the first moment I saw you. I wanted you as one wants a whore – for the same reason and purpose.

11/16/2013 12:56:45 AM

Who is John Galt?

 

 

11/13/2013 5:36:15 PM

"Though much is taken, much abides; and though
We are not now that strength which in old days
Moved earth and heaven, that which we are, we are;
One equal temper of heroic hearts,
Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will
To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield."


Tennyson

11/8/2013 9:06:39 PM

I'll stop the world and melt with you.

11/6/2013 3:31:06 PM

In every relationship there are two types of people, a reacher and a settler. The question is, which are you?

10/26/2013 12:17:42 PM
Bored at work.
10/25/2013 9:16:45 AM
Honesty people. It's not a hard concept to grasp. If someone isn't your type just be honest.
2/2/2013 11:35:02 AM
Everything in life is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power.
1/20/2013 7:58:42 AM

Who wants to go to Kinkfest? It sounds fun.

 

1/19/2013 5:25:14 AM
Lazy, lazy day.
1/18/2013 8:00:24 PM
When the Gods want to punish us, they answer our prayers.
1/18/2013 2:39:42 PM

Thank God I have only come across one woman on this website that had a hard limit of golf.

1/18/2013 2:08:05 PM

Sometimes, you just have to compliment someone on their perfect ass.

1/17/2013 2:01:40 PM

Reading comprehension is important. Not my fault you didn't read and understand. I'm ok with all you said because it shows I was right about maturity.

1/16/2013 3:59:22 PM

Whoa, the goatee picture might have to come down, I'm creeping myself out right now.

1/16/2013 3:25:04 PM

Anyone in the Madison area that goes to Anytime Fitness and wants someone to workout with or just help each other get in better shape, hit me up. It can be a drag going to the gym alone all the time.

 

 

No one?

posFatpigslut
 
 Age: 32
 Boulder, Colorado