This vast sea of hopefuls -- seemingly searching for a common goal -- is fraught with deception and shallow waters. It must be the draw of such potential 'matches' that encourages even the most lowly of mankind to toss his hook out.

OK, I have said my piece about frustration, and now wish to invite that submissive who is motivated, and does not ward off the obvious. She is aware of her role, and settled in her mind that service has its functions. Hopefully she would feel the draw of that one who will further her freefall in the lifestyle.