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Waiya

Hello I am looking for someone that is seeking a strong man they could submit to in a loving relationship. I enjoy the joys of flesh and all that comes with it. But lack the want of sex with out connection. The girl I am searching for must be passionate, caring, and mature enough to understand what she wants and what she will submit to get it. No games, no drama, just open understanding. My key value in life is honesty, this would be a must. With honesty comes trust. "you don't want to tell me something?" fine don't tell me, just don't lie about it.(unless we become M/s then there is no choice) Too often those lies will creep out and bite you on the ass harder than any whip ever could. I am very much open to finding love but it should not be expected to happen fast. I have loved deeply and have been burned by it, I am not jaded but only honest that it will take a strong foundation of trust and respect. Any relationship you want with me will have to take time from first message and beyond. I am not here to play games and speed through things. I love sex and BDSM, but know how complex things get when they move too fast. To me things work better with structure, where one thing leads to the next in a logical way. Meet, greet, date, sex, D/s, Love, M/s, 24/7. How far we go would need to be talked about. In my mind, my ideal woman would be open to many things. I will push her to the limits of her potential, and would see her push her self beyond them. She would in time become one with me and anticipate my desires. And when the day comes pledge her life to me and I to her. When it comes strictly to sex, I enjoy vanilla all well and good (heck it's my favorite ice cream) but I crave the trust that comes with BDSM. Trusting your body in my hands to do what I please. Whither I choose you please you, or use you to please my self. That type of trust can not be expressed in just words. When it comes to looks, well what can I say I like attractive people who doesn't. But looks fade and the depth of your character ALWAYS weighs the shell it is in. For my self would rate me 7.5 to 8 out of 10. And in the last few years with family health issues I let my self go a bit. But I have been energized to get back to my former glory ASAP. If I were to list off things that attract me that I could see, they would be. 1. A nice waist (I love the shape of the female form) 2. Glasses (just something about it makes them seem like a good girl gone bad) 3. Long dark hair (Pony tails, pig tails, long and flowing. you can't go wrong) 4. Unique hair color (green, blue, pink, neon red. nothing like individuality) 5. The look of devotion (I love to see submission reflected in her eyes) 6. Short (between 5'7" and 5'1". there is something quite nice to see her look up to me) 7. Skirts (I like a woman that can dress like a woman at least some of the time) Turn offs 1. LIARS. (if you like to lie and BS don't even bother) 2. BBW. (If your bigger than me, most likely not going to happen) 3. Infidelity (I am clean, and don't want to catch the ninja cause you felt like getting down)
ukneadmy2hands
 
 Age: 34
 West Hollywood, California