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Please ask if you would like a photo. To give you a general idea, I am more Russell Brand than Russell Crowe (or Russell Harty for that matter), but with less money, less annoying accent, less drugs, probably more wrinkles. I was once mistaken for John McEnroe, but frankly I can't see it. So, long on hair, short on muscle, slim and supple, not tanned or tubby. I relish the psychological as much as the physical (and I relish sensation far more than pain), and the real world as much as this world. Mostly, i enjoy enjoying life, and I'm happy to talk to anyone who feels likewise, especially if they like a little added...piquancy. But if fetish is all there is for you, well, that's not for me. I also value intelligence- or, conversely, naivety, as long as it looks up to intelligence. And, really, people who are at home in their own skin. And as it seems to be almost compulsory, here's my quick list of things i don't like: smokers, people whose profiles consist solely of who they wouldn't associate with; people whose profiles have ridiculous coloured backgrounds that mess up my brain; racists and fascists. (Not that I'm putting the same value on all of those!) This profile, like myself, will evolve over time. Sluts...I'm not sure I can quite see the attraction. Isn't it more erotic to be quite the opposite, and see your boundaries gradually undermined, brick by brick by brick? For the pressure to be gradually ratcheted...
8/30/2012 12:32:28 PM

A quick word in defense of short messages: sometimes you know, it's more natural to start a conversation with a single sentence, if it's a good sentence. Maybe, just maybe, some of those people that get dissed so much for simple, short openings are actually good conversationalists, gently segueing in. It's worth thinking of that before deleting them.

 

Speaking for myself, I'd rather someone let me get a word in than launch into a 3 page essay about themselves?

 

On the other hand, if that one sentence consists of "nice tits" or something equally inane, you're probably safe deleting...

YourBigSister
 
 Age: 24
 London, France