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Hi, I'm new and haven't got a clear idea of what I want. Basically I'm here to learn and try new things to see if I like them. I'm experienced for my age but not in kinks, I've only done the basic; choking, some light bondage, whipping/spanking, blindfolds, really rough sex, ordering around etc.
The most important thing about me is that I'm a diplomat, I try and understand everyone's point of view before making judgement, so when it comes to the fetish and kink world I'm very open to trying pretty much anything at least once (just no next level shit like scat).
I also hold women in the highest regard, it is my overall mission to understand the complexity and to know the ins and outs of the female brain and body so I can be the best I can possibly be at working out what a women wants, then giving it to them. That doesn't mean I'm weak and will do anything for any woman though.
My biggest turn on is the female orgasm. Literally nothing is even close, everything about it does something inexplicable to me.
I hate and cannot understand faked orgasms, they encourage men to carry on doing the things that don't work by making them think they do. However I'm sure there aren't many fn here!
As I'm still inexperienced, I am yet to work out whether I want to submit or dominate. However, I believe I could do both effectively without showing signs of the other.
- At the moment I think I would like to explore my dominating side. I know I would be assertive and would be the power presence that many subs desire, however I don't think I have the experience to pull of a very serious dominating role. For now I would like a casual sub, someone that I dominate for their pleasure and therefore talk a lot to understand each other (without detracting from the D/S power share). I don't think I would be the shouting in a dungeon type, I would aim to know exactly what the sub wants so I can dominate and completely remove control from them while doing what will please them and not stepping over any boundaries. If it is possible, I would be a sensitive but firm dom (an oxymoron, but it makes sense to me).
- If I was to submit it would be mainly because I want to learn, not because I want to be overpowered and humiliated. I am not weak, although I could act it. My motive would be to simply please the mistress dominating me, and if that requires submissive behaviour then so be it. I do really want an older woman though, I've been with them before and have learnt so much from their experience and maturity (even if it was just vanilla sex). An older woman that instructed me to do exactly what would please them most would be perfect.
On the outside world I'm a social and outgoing person. Like many people my age, I like going out, clubbing and drinking and generally enjoying life while I have youth and time. I'm a rugby player but I got injured and I'm now out for a season. I guess I need a new energy..
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