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I am new to this site, but I have been in the lifestyle for 7 years. I am looking for a LTR with a Dominant male. I have an age range of 26-48, SINGLES ONLY-I won't even respond to married men. I can get all the SAFE, sane casual play I want from 2 wonderfully creative men, you can't offer me anything casually that is new, so move along if that is what you are interested in at this time. I want the challenge of an intensified relationship. I have several pictures, but will not send them out until I am comfortable with you. I prefer to send a picture only after I have been sent one. Please be smoke-tolerant and financially stable (I am not a gold-digger, but am financially stable and expect the same from a partner) Do not expect any sexual activites on the first meeting, I want a relationship and that takes time to get to know/trust each other. I am not interested in long distance, will not travel and consider anything beyond 50 miles of Des Moines long distance. I have tried them before-I don't get enough face-to-face interaction when we see each other only 1-2 times a week. Plus, while I do not have children, I do have an aging mother and will not relocate more than a 90 minute drive from her. Personality: I am intelligent and assertive, the latter may be a strange quality for a submissive, but I am not a doormat. I do not define my submissiveness by any lifestyle title and tend to avoid those who focus on the ettiquette qualities of the lifestyle. I try to think outside the box. Dislikes: People who are late, wannabe-Doms, incomplete profiles and people who don't read my profile. Hard limits include: scat, ployamory, enemas, golden showers, expected bisexual action, food or sleep deprivation. I am submissive, not passive. I believe I have a lot to offer the right man and so I have high standards. If your ideal relationship is: coming home from work to a hot meal, clean house, yard neatly twimmed, getting a blow-job for dessert, then spending your night on the computer, out with other friends or in front of the TV watching sports, then I am not the one for you. My main pleasure and desire is from the surrender of control, not from service. I have no problem doing 99% of all indoor household chores and a huge chunk of yardwork, but if I am freeing you from the inane chores of life, my hope would be you would spend the extra time with me.