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W why A am I H here.
Good question.
I have been in this life choice (some call a lifestyle)(or did it choose me)since my early 20's.
I'm here to read profiles. I'm seeking. One might say I'm very picky. No,But...there has to be some chemistry between us.
I'm not here for a play partner.
I'd rather not play games.
If you would like to talk leave a message I'll get back to you. (for some reason I have not been receiving message notifications to my email.) If I take awhile to reply that may be the reason.
I'm not here looking for photos to add to a collection. I do not need a photo to talk to you. I feel that there will be a point when it is time to see photos of each other.
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What drew you here?
Why do you think you are slave material?
Why do you think you are submissive?
If there was no internet would you know what you think you know about who you now say you are.
This is not something most people seek out.Hell ,most people never think about this life or even know about it.
50 shades of crap is not a true example of what this life is.It just gives one a false idea of how things should be.When it is not possible for it to be even close.It just shows us a rich man with a horny female with a boring life.
If you came here because of the books and movies you have seen and read.That is a start.
It can lead to the understanding of the real side of of this life..."IF" you are willing to learn.
If you think you know already.Then I would suggest you enjoy more books and movies.
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Some play at it. No problem with play.
Some seek it for real.
Those seeking play most often end up talking to those that are seeking real.They simply do not know what the other is talking about.
The same with those seeking real.
Those seeking real will attract those that are really looking for play and a way to chase away the boredom they experience in their life.(Bored with their job,BF,SO or whatever)
They to do not know what the other is talking about.
A person seeking real may quickly fall for the slick words of a person that is just there for play and may be quoting from some BDSM book they have read.While the one there for play is having the time of their life with the messages back and forth. The one seeking real may be falling deeper and deeper into feelings that have been brought out that they have never felt before.
One is playing the other is falling for.
When the time comes to meet in person.(if that time ever really comes. Most never get that far before one or the other disappears,vanishes in an instant overnight.)
The one playing...is still just playing and that is all they want to do. Play with sex of course.
The one falling hopes for more and is looking for it... only to find that they have been played and their feelings and their heart has been crushed.
If you are playing and this is an adventure for you why not say so. I'm sure there are a huge number on this site that would be more than interested in your thoughts and play.
For even those that are looking for play will almost always pretend they are searching for REAL. (they are,searching for real play)Why, to attract more that they can play with.Why,because they think the one searching for real will settle at least for a time for play. An maybe they will.
There are those on both sides that are looking for "REAL" as in LTR.They just finally give up because of being played. |
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| Age: 21 |
| Sandiego,
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