W/we are what, and who, we are. Whether inherent, or environmentally ingrained, the personality characteristics, and emotional and intellectual attributes we have, are what makes us into the beings we are. I believe, if, we want to find real, lasting relationships, we must be true to ourselves first.

Perhaps this is no great discovery in itself, however when coupled with the fact that we also have no control over whom we are attracted to and what “chemistry or vibes” instigate that attraction, it becomes an epiphany! At least it did for Me!

In any case, two Dominant personalities cannot share the same space. O/one of them will always be stronger than the other.  

I am not a player. I am real and seek an equally real man to share LIFE!! Life in all its manifest beauties, not merely one small fraction called D/s.

Thanks for listening.