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My name is Evey and for the most part I am a submissive. I'm
energetic and feisty and am not the docile, seen and not heard type of
submissive. I have strong opinions and have no problem voicing them at
any time. In the last weeks I have begun to recognize the little bit of
a top in me hence, I say mostly submissive.
Some things you should know about me:
- I'm a voyeur. And I don't mean having someone perform for me on
their cam. I like to watch people in their own environments doing
things they do when people aren't watching. Not necessarily sexual,
although watching that is fun too, that is something completely
intoxicating about people and how "real" they seem when they're alone.
If you see me in a club or at a party and I'm sitting back watching,
I'm not being a loner. Most likely I'm enjoying watching. Talk with me
if you like, but don't be surprised if you have to break my
concentration a bit :P
- I enjoy a bit of what I think would be classified as
psychological submission. I like my boundaries being pushed in a
controlled environment. I like being told what to do, and how and
when.. I like my decisions to be made for me. I enjoy someone knowing
things that i want to try but am hesitant and forcing me. It takes the
right kind of partner to do this, but when people can make me do things
that are out of the ordinary for my personality, it's such a rush!
- I like pain. Whether it's a good firm smack on the ass, being
bitten, or nicely stretched out ;) Canes, single-tails, knives.. mmm
yummy.
- I love love love physical domination. Being pounded rough and
hard, held down.. I'd love to be tied up someday or tied down rather :)
The feeling of someone strong and physically imposing enough to know I
couldn't get out even if I wanted to :P
- The biggest factor for me is energy. That's one of those things
you either have or you don't. I might play with you once, but if
there's not the right energy it's not going to happen a second time.
And even if there are second and third scenes arranged.. that doesn't
mean the energy is right for anything more than play. If I am
interested in something more, it will be made clear to you.. otherwise-
it is what it is and leave it at that.
I think the biggest thing I'm looking for is someone who can balance
the submissive side of me with my fiercely independent, intellectual,
and emotional sides. I'm not a toy to be used just because I'm
submissive. I'm not a slave, no offense, I expect to be treated as an
equal outside the bedroom. Just because I welcome a certain degree of
physical abuse does not mean in any way shape or form that I put up
with emotional abuse.
Lastly, I identify as poly. I may or may not be involved emotionally
and/or physically with other people at any point in time. But I am
honest about it. I also identify as a slut. This does not mean that I'm
sleeping with anyone and everyone. In fact, I am quite picky and
haven't had multiple partners since entering the public scene. But
anyone even remotely interested in me needs to understand and be okay
with this possibility. I am open to the idea of emotional monogamy..
but anyone I would consider this with is going to have to live up to my
very high standards and demands (I'm emotionally high maintenance).
Currently, I'm looking for people with whom I am comfortable around. In
my partners, I require as much intellectual stimulation as sexual. I am
not easy, and am not looking for one night stands. I want long term
casual relationships. I am picky. I am not interested in monogamous
romantic love at this point in my life. If you wish to know more about
this outlook feel free to ask.
If you really want to get inside my head, I suggest you read my blog linked in my websites.
FYI: My Friend space is reserved only for those who I have
a) met personally b) known for years online c) both a and b OR D)
belongs to someone who falls in a, b, or c category
DISCLAIMER:
A bit about what I am looking for: To be frank, while I very
much miss emotional commitment.. having someone who I know I always
come first with and vise versa.. I am not looking actively. Those types
of connections come when you least expect them. For the most part- I am
simply looking for friends in the scene. I would appreciate that anyone
even thinking of me in any OTHER way please take the time to get to
know me. I am much more receptive to those who make advances after
showing interest in ME as an intellectual human being than just seeing
me in the club, thinking I’m cute, reading my profile on and
coming to the conclusion that we’d be GREAT together. Just to further
define: in my world friendship takes more than just hanging out once or
twice… try several conversations and probably my willingness to share
personal- non scene related information.
<3 Evey
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