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| SEEKING FEMME DOMINANT
I love my Sir with all my heart, but his work frequently leaves him too tired to engage in any kink, mental or physical. With his blessing, I am seeking a femme dominant (female or mtf) to play with in real-time. I'm NOT looking for a romantic or sexual relationship at this time. Instead, I'm seeking a sensual D/s partnership where I can satisfy my desire to serve, and also explore various interests and curiosities that I have. A few noteworthy points:
* I enjoy many s of service, from serving tea to giving [enthusiastic but amateur] massage. However, I am not interested in domestic service such as cleaning. I do like to be generally pleasing, though. I am not deliberately bratty; I don't play games of defiance and punishment.
* I like mild flogging and thuddy impact play and I'm curious about harsher s (such as single tail or crops) but do not have an extremely high tolerance.
* I adore soft, feather-light touches and also nail-scratching, especially if you're doing one and surprise me by switching to the other from time to time.
* I enjoy mental bondage, and I'm very curious and interested in exploring other s, from traditional restraints to ropework.
* I would enjoy being a human pet for the right femme dominant to play with. I'm also heavily into puppy play, but find it difficult to relax enough to get fully into that headspace (I'd love to work on that, though).
* In the type of dynamic I am looking for, D/s is a partnership of equals. One person chooses to submit and the other chooses to accept and act upon that submission. At no point do they cease being equals. I could write an entire essay about this, but I won't. Suffice to say, a key element of this equality is mutual pleasure. I'm not going to request you do things to me that you don't enjoy, and I have no interest in doing things that *I* don't enjoy just because a dominant told me to.
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