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I moved to the PNW at the end of February to be closer to family and I'm excited about the people I'm meeting here.
If I had to choose one word to describe me it would be passion. That word would be followed by honesty, loyalty, and integrity.
Outside kink I have a wide variety of interests. I am outdoorsy but enjoy relaxing or working at home depending on my mood.
My journey, like so many others began with experimentation before I knew what kink was. Once I began learning to perfect what I was doing and after discovering that it had a name I was active in the kink community in the Reno, NV area for a few years when I first got involved, and have been active in the scene in the SF North Bay and the scene in SF itself for about 3 years. I look forward to getting involved in the community here as well, starting with some munches.
I am seeking friends, play-mates, and partners. For all of those I start as friends and let them develop in whatever way feels natural. I am a fan of letting relationships be what they will be.
In friends I seek common interests, honesty, loyalty and look to develop trust. In play partners I seek common desires, honesty, loyalty, and look to develop trust. You'll be noticing a trend. I feel that trust is essential in any form of relationship.
I seek partners that will be a main focus for me and vice versa. I seek partners who will be loyal and submit to me because they are inspired to do so. People who are willing to spend the time to build the trust required for such a bond.
My dominance is tender, primal, and rough. I am nurturing, protective, and sadistic. I love teaching, and talking/sharing about the lifestyle, about poly, and about implements and techniques.
So if you want to chat or get to know me and gain a new friend or see if something more can work out, drop me a line.
You can also find me at one of the munches I attend in Marysville/Everett. in the mean time enjoy some interesting quotes that I enjoy:
"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."
-Teillard de Chardin
“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”
-Oscar Wilde
“It is not enough to conquer; one must learn to seduce.”
― Voltaire
"A truly submissive woman is to be treasured, cherished and protected for it is only she who can give a man the gift of dominance."
-Dominique Aury
"The submissive radiates from the Dominant’s love and devotion, becoming a rose; a beautiful being that knows they are loved and cared for."
-unknown
"You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him find it within himself.”
– Galileo Galilei
"Oh yes. The past can hurt. But the way I see it you can either run from it or learn from it."
-Rafiki
"Be the change you want to see in the world."
- Gandhi
"No man is good enough to govern any woman without her consent"
-Susan B. Anthony
"Being your slave, what should I do but tend Upon the hours and times of your desire? I have no precious time at all to spend, Nor services to do, till you require."
-Shakespeare, Sonnet 57
"Follow love and it will flee, flee love and it will follow thee."
-John Gay
"No man is wise at all times or is without his blind side"
-Desiderius Erasmus
Kik: Votal
FL: Votal
I look forward to hearing from you.
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Why Orgasm Control?
Because for me, the power exchange itself is what is important in any D/s, DD/lg, M/s relationship. Giving me control of your pleasure and level of arousal is one of the most intimate things you can trust me with.
It’s way to let me into the deepest, and often most secret part of your life. Though orgasm control you let me into the very sexual core of who you are. I take control of that, giving you what you need while ensuring that you always remember who you love and who you belong to.
Besides that it’s fun to see that frustrated look in your eyes when you’ve gone without for a day...or three. That need as I edge you closer and closer then stop, making you thrash your head, whimper, groan, and beg. And it’s fun to make that frustrated brain of yours get creative when you walk through my door after a long day of teasing and denial and beg me “Sir, please let me cum.” It’s just too fun to see what happens when I respond with “convince me.” You’re so creative when you’re desperately horny and I love it.
You cum when I want. You don’t cum unless I permit it. I control your orgasms and through that, your level of sexual frustration. Good girls cum hard and often. Bad girls have to earn every orgasm. Really good girls get trained to orgasm on command…and then they cum when, where, and however I want. Granted, an orgasm without stimulation at my command at some random moment isn’t going to give as intense an orgasm as when I have you pinned against a wall and command it while stimulating you, but it will be a “mini” orgasm that will leave you needing more….just the way I like it.
-Originally posted by me on FL and on my blog. |
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| Age: 61 |
| Not in KY,
Maryland |
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