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VivaciaVestrit

Female but most comfortable being fairly androgynous. I own a dog and she is everything to me - if you dislike dogs I'm afraid there really is no point getting in touch. I won't give her up or put her second for anyone. (And because it needs saying here - no, she's not looking for a lover, she's happily in a long-term relationship with a bulldog *grin*) I'll add more here later. (I wonder what percentage of dating website profiles say this!) NOTE: I should probably add this here. This is all pretty difficult for me. I've considered myself a switch for a long time and I've only just come around to the fact I would like to be the submissive in a relationship. I've dealt with a lot of bad things in this area, and I find it very difficult to let go as a submissive. I don't mean that I 'top from the bottom' or anything like that, just that while I enjoy things like humiliation and begging, I have a lot of difficulty doing so. I fight myself a lot on this. This means two important things. 1. I am probably a horrifically difficult sub and will fight every step of the damn way because apparently I hate myself. And 2. There is no point in blundering in demanding my submission immediately and calling me a dirty slut in lower case. I will ignore any messages like this. I don't trust easily and I don't give submission lightly. It's not something you can demand at first contact.
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 Age: 39
 South coast, United Kingdom