i am me, your approval isn't wanted or needed...... im 28, with long brown curly hair and big brown eyes... i live in wheat ridge Colorado. lets see what else...... ive been in the scene for 8 years, and i know what i like and dislike tho im willing to try new things within my limits. im as active in the local scene as i can be. what am i looking for.... friends thats it... i am owned by the most wonderful man, from the start hes been everything i could ever ask for it hasnt been an easy road to get where we are, and along the way we lost a part of our trinity, but even through heartache and pain hes been the one to hold me up, to love me for who i am. he is the reason i smile for what seems like no reason at all, my best friend and the love of my life.. i am a poet at heart, words are how i express my emotions most of the time, its not always flowerly sweet poems, in fact some of it can be downright scary, but hey its what works for me. if you read it, dont judge, its how i felt at that moment, but perhaps not how i feel later but i dont delete anything i write as that would not be being true to myself. i dont ask for anyone to read what i might write, and i dont ask for approval but simply understanding that this is how i express my feelings and viewpoints about things that matter in my life. if you choose to comment feel free to do so, but keep in mind that snide comments or judgemental ones will be ignored because no one has the right to judge anothers feelings.... i am submissive by nature... i can play the dominant card if needed and at times i do enjoy that but in general im more content kneeling at my Masters feet. i am not a slave, and maybe i might have that in me but im not sure. i guess time will tell where i will go with that aspect of my life, i know i want to be more then what i am for the one i love, but who knows. those who know me will say i can be a mouthy brat at times and yup they would be right, but its part of who i am, i was raised to stand up for myself and my rights and i do, even if maybe i should take the high road and just keep my mouth shut... but at least im staying true to what i believe. i dont believe that to be a " true submissive" that you have to give up limits, your life and hell your personality. if that is being a true submissive then i really dont want to be one, i know im not the best sub, in fact im not even sure im a good one, but i try to make Master happy and i am willing to learn and grow as needed in that area of my life. life is ever changing it is fluid and moves and evolves as time passes, and we must move with it or be left behind, nothing written here is set in stone and all might change without a moments notice, but for right now, im happy with who i am and where i am in my life and i cherish every moment i have with my friends and my family.