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** DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE MARRIED AND ARE LOOKING FOR FUN, A DOMINANT COUPLE LOOKING FOR A PET, OR YOU PLAN TO CALL ME SLUT, WHORE, ETC WITHIN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE. YOU WILL BE BLOCKED. **


ABOUT ME I am a little. I am a submissive. I am a brat. I am a masochist. I am age 3-5. I am NOT a slave. I am NOT desperate. I will not beg for your attention in the beginning, nor will I respond to messages that resort to name calling or demands for me to call you "Daddy," "Sir," or "Master" right away. That is a title that is earned not given away freely like samples at Costco. If you don't like it, then move along.
There are a few things you should know about me: I am girly and feminine to the nth degree. I love all manner of things that are pink, sparkly, and/or covered in unicorns. I am not a "guy's girl". I am not low maintenance. I take four hours to get ready because I enjoy primping. I love shopping, fashion, and beauty. I have spent more than a thousand dollars on a purse, I like nice things. However, I do not expect anyone to buy these things for me except myself. I have the palate of a five year, it's something I'm working on. I would never be considered a foodie. Any place that I eat needs to have a kid's menu, which I suppose works with the little aesthetic. I'm liberal. I'm a feminist (I'm not fanatical about it, though). I'm agnostic. I can deal with other viewpoints and have intelligent discussions, but I will never be okay with the idea that the government can dictate to a woman what she can and cannot do with her body. There are more things for this area, but I'll get to that later.
What I'm looking for:

  • Age 28-45 - This is somewhat of a hard limit for me. I find that the bigger the difference the less we have in common outside kink and I'm looking for forever. It has to work inside and outside of the bedroom.
  • Monogamy - I don't share well. I don't want a sister. I don't want a mommy. I have no desire to engage in group sex. I want that intense one on one connection. Ownership bordering on obsession and co-dependence where you want to spend as much time as possible with that one person because it is your happy place.
  • Long-Term - I am looking for forever. I don't want to look for a new daddy every few months or years. I want my next relationship to lead to marriage and a life together filled with love, kinky commitment, and fun.
  • Mutual Attraction - This relates to age as well. DDLG and BDSM are sexual based kinks. No offense to the older doms out there, I'm sure you are absolutely fantastic, but if I don't want you in that way this wouldn't work. I do not have a specific type and I'm attracted to all sorts of people, but I do have standards. I am by no means in phenomenal shape, but I would not consider myself a BBW. More of a chubby bunny if you will, so I do appreciate when someone is HW proportionate as well.
  • 24/7 Lifestyle - I'm not wanting to do this just inside the bedroom. I've always lived by the motto of being a lady in the streets, Daddy's slut in the sheets, and an absolute princess when at home. I thoroughly enjoy being little, even during playtime. It's not something that I just want to turn on and off. It is part of who I am. I understand that there are times when it may not be appropriate to act like a three-year-old and I can contain myself when needed, however, I do appreciate those subtle signs of ownership that usually manifests in forms of old school chivalry.
  • Physical Proximity - I have tried online long-distance and it doesn't work. It is usually a way for a man to have a dirty little secret that he can keep from his wife or girlfriend. A way to stroke his ego and feel better about himself and I'm done with that. I am a physically needy creature. I need affection constantly, it is the only way I can feel calm at times. If we are not able to see each other once a week at least then this is not going to work.
  • Communication - I am small and needy. I require someone that absolutely revels in that neediness. That enjoys the idea of having a little hang on their every word, cling to their leg when they leave, and text them frequently - someone that wants to be wanted and needs to be needed. I need consistent communication and affirmations daily. Please know, though, that I will not beg you to want me if we start talking and you just decide to stop. Though I am needy, I have self-respect.
  • Appreciation - I am submissive and I have an innate need to please and to take care of others. I am usually the one my friends or family go to if they need something or have an issue and I will also jump to help them, at times this goes unappreciated. The only thing I ask from my Daddy is that he shows appreciation for the great lengths that I will go to in order to please him. This may take the form of verbal affirmations, physical affection intended to calm or please me, small tokens or gifts that I may earn after completing a determined number of tasks or going without breaking rules for a certain length of time, etc. I enjoy being doted upon and spoiled, after all, I'm only a little girl.
  • Stability - I'm college educated. I live on my own. I'm gainfully employed and I make six figures a year. I need someone that is in the same place. I find it difficult to follow rules or commands if I'm farther along in life than my prospective daddy. Now, this is not measured in dollars or level of education only, but there is something to be said for both.

Hard Limits:
  • ATM
  • Scat
  • Dilation
  • Fisting
  • Fire Play
  • Knife Play
  • Needle Play
  • Electrical Play
  • Gun Play
  • Gynecological Instruments
  • Eating Ass (Giving)
  • Face Slapping (Soft Limit)
    • I can deal with it if I absolutely have to, but it makes me subdrop bad afterwards so after care is absolutely essential.
  • Domestic Servitude
  • Most Watersports
  • Illegal Activities
  • Body Modifications
  • Switching
    • I'm sorry, I just have no ability to be any sort of domme.
  • Permanent Marks
  • Objectification
    • In terms of being treated like an object, like a foot stool. However, I am very into the idea of being owned and treated like an object in that manner.
  • Polyamory
    • I will not share or be shared. I want jealous. I want possessive. I want love bordering on obsession.
Kinks and Fetishes:
  • TPE
  • DDLG
  • Cages
  • Spanking
  • Bondage
  • Light Humiliation
  • Kidnapping Roleplay
  • Rape Roleplay
  • Sticker Charts
  • Sensory Deprivation
  • Mental Bondage
  • 24/7 Lifestyle
Merrickx
 
 Age: 45
 Perth, Australia