It is all about fun and excitement.  If you want a long time friend, get a dog.  If you want playtime then this is the correct place.   There is nothing wrong with being friends and playing together, but long email chats, many dinner meetings are things friends do AFTER they find out that they do enjoy playing together.  Meeting and seeing if we click it what counts.  No thanks means no thanks, everyone parts as adults.  Ladies, know that for every horny bastard asshole guy who is out here, there are just as many tease, "I have a golden pussy" women.  Lets get pass that and move on!!   I am real and, please, you need to be also.  I won't play unless we can get along and enjoy eachother.  I too have a life outside the scene, but do enjoy meeting and being with people who find kinky fun to be a nice way to spend an afternoon.  If you are "real" we should talk.