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VirginiaDo

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	It's been quite a while, maybe 5-6 years since I was last active on here so think maybe its time for a re-write which is harder than is seems as I tend to end up writing way too much so will leave much to any inquiries you may have. I'm a single male that is handsome, thoughtful, smart, strong minded, masculine, kind, caring, geeky, nerdy, down to earth, easy going, neither introverted or extroverted, reliable, average build, well endowed, considerate and patient. I've a range of different interest from going to exhibitions to trips away and I enjoy being introduce to new things with good company. Of course ultimately only once face to face getting to know each other can we really see if the chemistry is there but that's a hint about me. A few times I have been asked why I named my profile Virginclay; well it was because at the time I was in fact a virgin though definitely not because of lack of offers but this is no longer the case having had a LTR since then. It was also because I was 100% new to submission which is still 100% the case as though it was educational with much very positive feedback it was also very vanilla. As for the clay well I feel that I am completely mouldable as I have no preconceived ideas of which form my submission will take or what would transpire between you and I. I was once told by someone trying to persuade me to be their sub that the purest form of fulfillment as a submissive will come from partaking in that which gives only to the other which I feel is likely the truth so I've no tick list of things I require to happen and no artificial limit to what may as I hope to be a sincere submissive and to create a trustful connection with a lady who'll extract everything she desires from our union in a thoughtful, considerate and self-assured manner. Ultimately I am hoping you'll captivate me, that your character, thoughts, ideas, femininity and natural authority would enthrall me to your will organically over time as we get to know each other and build a rapport. I'm seeking a ongoing friendship, with conversation, laughs, trust and companionship with your complete control. I am not concerned about age, though I lean towards older it is about clicking together more than anything. Though you'll be my only focus I do not mind if you are single or in a ENM relationship. I am now more than happy to meet a D/s couple. For a long time I have had a desired to be part of a ongoing poly mfm as I adore the idea of making a wonderful lady the center of attention which I realise fits perfectly with a D/s dynamic. So if you liked what I have said, are a n/s seeking a longer term connection please feel free to drop me a line. I do not believe I've ever contacted a Domme first as one should speak only once spoken to before being completely liberal with the information she desires so I wait patiently for your words. I do have a photo but wish to only share once we chat a little. I have been informed very often I'm handsome but that is a subjective thing. I am also at the latter end of a recover from injury so taking tentative steps for now. Looking around, learning a bit more for the future of submitting to someone.

4/14/2018 10:13:42 AM

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rope bunny
81% Slave
76% Boy/Girl
68% Submissive
67% Non-monogamist
58% Experimentalist
52% Voyeur
46% Ageplayer
42% Pet
40% Brat
37% Exhibitionist
23% Vanilla
16% Degradee
9% Masochist
2% Primal (Prey)
1% Brat tamer
1% Switch
0% Primal (Hunter)
0% Rigger
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Dominant
0% Degrader
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Sadist

bdsmtest.org/r/Qzhh3d8V

7/31/2016 8:21:03 AM

I've not been active on here for quite a while and though still quite busy I'm dipping my tow back in but with a different view on things.

When I was on here last I got into a very deep and enlightening conversation with an amazing women and Domme who opened my mind with her intelligence and insightfulness. Though it was not possible to meet her at the time she helped me look a things differently to how I had, made me think of things I'd never considered before and made me realise ones desires and limits are fluid between the Domme and her subs constrained only by the level respect and trust developed over time.

She most definitely raised the bar very high with my expectations of what a Domme should be leaving most on here way below but also raising the bar on what I must be to be worthy of being under the wing of such a lady.