|
Orgasm denial or orgasm control is a sexual practice where a person, usually a male, is kept in the plateau phase of the sexual response cycle for an longer than normal length of time. Otherwise known as keeping them "on the edge". Some would say long term case of "blue balls". Which by the way is a MYTH men use to get laid! Erotic sexual denial is usually done as part of a vanilla sex game, a BDSM scene or practiced in a D/s lifestyle. Depending on the nature of "the game" and those participating, the wearer may either be A.) allowed an orgasm at the end of play (which usually produces an orgasm that is generally much stronger than normal), or B.) the wearer is deliberately denied an orgasm, in which case the wearer will generally feel extreme feelings of sexual frustration. Usually, in a D/s or BDSM context a blend of both options is used to create feelings of frustration and control by the dominant partner.
It is said that males can be kept in denial for extended periods of up to several weeks (periods around 2 - 4 weeks each time are often quoted as being trouble free), although there will be an emotional and psychological impact from the artificial suppression of such a powerful drive. That being said, in some D/s relationships both the submissive male and dominant female find that extreme long term chastity works for them. It is possible to keep a submissive male in chastity for periods of 3, 6, 9 or even 12 months or longer. This is extreme orgasm denial, control and submission. It can be an amazing experience for both the dominant and submissive when practiced and managed properly with open communication.
|
