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Hi all well just joined new to here but not the to BDSM.
I am going to think about this before adding my desires and thoughts.
What follows is a glimpse into who and what I am, and is not meant to give complete disclosure nor be a book in which you can read to learn about me. Well not completely anyway. What I am going to try and give to you is an insight into where my mind is at, and how I feel about this lifestyle and BDSM in general.
First and foremost is that I am a Dominant male, I do not switch do not play subbie, so if you are looking for one that may enjoy those activities then please pass me on by, for you will not find what you need here.
Experience? Some might say yes some might say no. My question to you is are you an individual? If you are then you are unique in yourself and how could I possibly have experience you? Have I been around yeah and I am not talking about five years, lets get to the double figures. Does that make me experience. Again, I ask you, what is experience? I could say I have fifty years experience in spanking, ok that would be a little hard considering my age, but does that make me experience? In spanking yes but BDSM is so much more. I have I do enjoy many aspects of BDSM and though being exposed to many different things over the years I have obtained a better idea of where I will not go. My hard limits are simple, UNDER AGE and scat.
I do believe that communication is the key to any good relationship lock, but like some doors you need more than on key. So on your key ring if you do not have honesty, communication, trust worth, an openness to discuss different topics, then please move on.
I do not expect nor demand that you have experience, but I do expect that you have knowledge and can answer the simple question of what are your desires.
By now if I have not lost you, you should be gathering that this is rather vague and not to the point but very open ended. It is meant to be. Do I enjoy giving pain yes, otherwise I could not punish. Do I give pain in general play, yes, but then to some it is too much pain. So it is about opening up dialog with me and you and finding out where we are, and where to go next.
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